If running for the hills is an option, do it.

Now I don't know about you, but I go to a school where we don't have actual fraternities or sororities.

But let's just say we don't need a physical fraternity to encounter frat guys or wannabes.

The typical I'm not ready for commitment, texts you for a couple days, and then you never hear from them again. Saturday's are always for the boys, and treating girls with respect isn't cool.

Beer pong is a way of life, and the only thing they care about is one thing, and one thing only, themselves.

Shocker.

Now, okay, we can never bash on an entire group, and I'm not here to say the entire male population is crap, and they're all a bunch of losers. Because that isn't true.

I'm only talking about the guys I've personally encountered, or maybe you have to.

The ones who admitted to encouraging girls to drink solely to sleep with them, the ones who all happen to "be bad at texting" just so they don't have to text you.

The point is, you shouldn't have to deal with this, especially in college.

Maybe you're already fully invested, and maybe you've just started talking.

I'd give it a week.

If you meet someone like this, it's a clear sign they don't know who they are, and they're figuring it out, in their own way.

That's not the kind of person you need in your life.

In fact, we're all trying to figure out who we are.

So girls, if you've been deceived, if he's stopped talking to you, or made you feel bad about yourself, let him go.

As my grandpa famously says, "DTD, Dump. The. Dork."

And maybe run away if you have to.

Frat guys, leave us alone, grow up, figure out your life, save your liver, apologize to some girls, and turn your life around.

College is hard enough as it is, with emotional ups and downs, the last thing we need to do is add to each other's stress.

My professor told me, "not everything that glitters is gold honey."

Someone may look fun, and enticing, energetic and new, but really nothing is new under the sun. We're all young, discovering who we are, and unfortunately sometimes messing up during the process.

So how do you date a frat guy?

You don't.

You don't because they're not ready, you're not ready, and anyone who acts like that is clearly in need of a serious wake-up call.

College only lasts four years, it goes by so quickly.

So please, ditch the losers, focus on what's important.

Make memories, don't add to your regrets.

Trust me.