For a lot of people, Valentine’s Day is just a reminder that they don’t have a special someone and it makes the day super not fun. That used to be me, until this year, when I realized something important. I have always had a Valentine, my dad. He was my first Valentine, my favorite and I know he’ll forever be my Valentine. Thanks for always showing me a little extra love on Valentine’s Day, Daddy. Here’s why having your dad as your Valentine is the best.

1. They know what you like

Every year my dad gets me a heart-shaped box of chocolates and a bouquet of daisies (my favorite flowers). The little extra thought he puts into making Valentine’s Day special for me was always enough to make me forget that I was feeling sad to be single.

2. They give the best hugs

There’s nothing like getting a big hug from your dad, especially on Valentine’s Day when it’s easy to feel lonely. The comfort of my Dad’s arms sends me right back to being a little girl and for a second, all my problems go away.

3. Their love is unconditional

Dads don’t expect their daughters to give them anything on Valentine’s Day. Their main objective is to make their daughters feel special and loved, no strings attached.

4. Their love is an example

Having your dad as your Valentine should show you how any guy, who may be your Valentine in the future, should treat you. If your Valentine doesn’t match up to the level of your dad on Valentine’s Day, tell him to take some notes and do better.

5. They make you feel like a princess

The relationship between a daughter and her dad is unique and so full of love. Dads always provide a shoulder to cry on, strong words of advice, protection when needed and limitless love. A dad always knows how to lift his daughter up and Valentine’s Day gives him an excuse to spoil her a little extra.

Next time you’re feeling lonely and find yourself wallowing in self-pity about being single on Valentine’s Day, don’t forget that you have, have always had, and always will have had a spectacular Valentine in your dad.