I'm Sorry My Dad Set The Bar So High, Guys
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I'm Sorry My Dad Set The Bar So High, Guys

I have high standards.

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I'm Sorry My Dad Set The Bar So High, Guys
Kelli Frye

I'm definitely a daddy's girl. From the afternoon cuddles to being told how beautiful I am all the time, I have yet to find a boy I love as much as my father. My father was the one who raised me, inspired my morals, and taught me what it means to be loved.

See, my father is old-fashioned. He might have grown up in a different time, but he shows common courtesy such as opening the door, taking my plate to the sink after dinner, and pulling out my chair for me. Guys today normally don't do simple things like that. Not only that, but he always tells me and my mother both that we don't need makeup and look the most beautiful without it. He sets an example of how a husband should treat his wife.

He shows respect rather than being much like these young guys trying to smooth their way into a hot girl's bed. That isn't what a relationship is all about. Dad knows that women are people and have likes, dislikes, opinions, etc. He understands what a relationship must have: honesty, conversation, laughs, agreements, and disagreements.

He proves that he is a respectful man through his actions because actions do, indeed, speak louder than words. He doesn't hold women to double standards. He doesn't want hurt his wife and kids but rather build them up. He knows that everyone has emotions, and sometimes it seems like guys are blind.

My father understands the meaning of no. How many times does it take guys today to stop asking a girl out? It's time the only answer should have to be is, "No," and they back off. Each time I experience this problem, he was and is there for me to remind me of my worth. He helps me understand how I should go about the problem. He's on my side: no means no.

After all is said and done, I know that no man will ever love me as much as my father. He tells me how much he loves me, and he puts his words to action each and every day. He works long, hard hours to provide for his family. And I believe he really would die for me if it ever was down to that.

So, sorry, guys. I don't think you can reach the bar my dad set. He shows me the kind of love I want in life, and I'm afraid it'll be difficult for you to reach my standards.

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