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Cut The Theatrics

How to stop being dramatic.

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Cut The Theatrics

Don't get me wrong. Drama on a stage is one of my favorite things. I'm a theater major and everything -- scouts honor. But, I am a firm believer that drama should be kept on the stage. Offstage, make things easier and more pleasant for everyone and say what you mean and only what you mean.

Cut the theatrics and just be. I understand that everyone has faults. I have plenty of faults to go around, but one's faults should not affect other's around you in a negative way. Miscommunication, lies and deceit are painful and should be avoided. Everyone has been a victim, and everyone has been guilty of being a part of drama. We should strive to improve ourselves everyday, and I believe that cutting the theatrics is a necessary step.

If you are someone who thrives off the dramatics, why? Do you thrive off of ruining relationships? Professional relationships. Romantic relationships. Friendships. Do you thrive off of people being annoyed with you? I wouldn't assume so, so why do you thrive off of rumors and lies and saying things you don't mean? Drama may not mean to be toxic or harmful, but it always turns out to be. Even if you don't have bad intentions, think about if anyone can get hurt

If you are someone who feels they are "plagued" with drama, being constantly surrounded by drama, you don't have to be. It's simple: avoid it. If something is wrong, speak up and stick up for someone if they're the victim of injustice and stay out of it. You might need to go through an extra step: telling the guilty person to not bother you with the drama. It may make you sound "uncool," but unless you're in junior high, that should not be your top priority anymore.

We have to cut toxic people from our life. This can be an especially difficult step because these toxic people may be old friends, may be significant others, or a best friend. Pick your battles. If they are harmful enough, you'll know.

Cutting away drama from your life may be one of the best steps. It'll reduce the negativity in your life and open up communication with those around you. We all must be truthful, open, and willing to improve.



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