The holiday season is the most splendid time of year, spending time with loved ones and being surrounded by joyful things like tinsel and hot chocolate. But unfortunately, not all things go as planned. Having a Breakup crisis over the holidays is absolutely the worst, explaining to family members what happened at dinner; canceling that gift you got on Amazon for 60% off; and just the simple feeling of loneliness.
Yes, this does suck. But there's still an opportunity to have a good holiday season. All you need to do are these things.
1. Christmas movies
Who doesn't love Christmas movies? This can get you into the holiday spirit and get your mind off the breakup. Just turn on your television, crash on the couch, and triple-dog dare yourself to have a good time.
2. Hang out with friends
What better way to spend the holidays. Chilling with people who know you best is great for not only coping but with just having a good time in general. Go out, have a ball, and make sure to take plenty of selfies.
3. Christmas shop for people who are still in your life
Out with the old and in with the new! Shopping for Christmas presents for family and friends can help remind you who are truly in your life for the long run. Don't be afraid to even treat yourself this holiday and get yourself something that you truly deserve.
4. Christmas dinner
Food, family, and most importantly, food! Sitting down at the table with the people you love can really change the mood after a breakup. Just remember that some relationships are temporary and that family is forever.
5. New Year's resolutions
Christmas isn't the only major holiday! Making resolutions symbolizes an opportunity to reinvent yourself and to make changes in your life. Make a resolution that will benefit you as a whole. Start by making a resolution that promises yourself to know that not every relationship is meant to be.
The key part of coping with a breakup is realizing that what happened is in the past now. The holidays are a time where you are given gifts and the opportunity to give gifts yourself. Give yourself the gift of reassurance and faith while spending the holidays with people who will support you and provide a good time. Yes, this is the worst time to have a breakup, but in the end, there's always a chance to start anew. Celebrate what you have and look forward to what you'll receive. And what you'll receive is a "Happy Holiday" and a "Happy New Year"!