The Confessions Of A Girl Who Packs For A 14-Day Excursion Before A Weekend Trip

The Confessions Of A Girl Who Packs For A 14-Day Excursion Before A Weekend Trip

Literally, packing is THE WORST.

With spring break having just wrapped up for some of us and just starting for others, one thing is looming over our heads: packing. Some people hate it, some absolutely love it, and others just understand the hassle of it. Although, if you’re anything like me, you can never really pack right.

Sure, there’s really no way to pack correctly and there’s not an instruction manual as to how one is supposed to pack, just tips and this weird learned ability on how to pack, learning with help from parents.

Or maybe you’re just some super organized genius who knows how to pack efficiently and able to put as many clothes as you need and maybe more. What I mean in any instance though is that usually I’m either sitting on top of my suitcase struggling to close it, hoping and praying that my zipper doesn’t break, or somewhere around mid-trip an exclamation of, “That’s what I forgot!” comes out of my mouth at a completely random time.

Two polar opposites and yet, either way, it doesn’t end.

I’m not sure about anyone else, but if you’re anything like me and you have these polar opposites of packing, then your suitcase also never really ends up like it starts. With everything nicely organized and folded to fit it in the suitcase turning into clothes laid out with what looks like millions of wrinkles and creases and things looking like they tried to be folded and it just didn’t work and there are things spilling out of the sides of your suitcase basically. And still: everything is shoved in and I end up sitting on my suitcase, slowly budging the zipper, still hoping and praying it all fits and that I don’t break my suitcase…

Back to my main point though, I am always overpacking. I never really pack the right amount of clothing I need for a trip. It’s either me being underprepared or I just shove too many dang clothes in there and hope for the best.

Though I usually end up packing what seems to be the right amount, and then I start thinking, “What if I decide I want to wear this instead?” or “What if the weather isn’t right for this?”, even better (note the hint of sarcasm there) the “Mmm on second thought, I don’t want to wear this together, but I can wear it wiiiiiiiith this, this, and this!” So to me, packing is legit THE WORST.

I’m not a fan, but what’s worse than packing, is unpacking. No one likes it really, it’s doing laundry and taking out the clothes from your trip, or your peaceful existence away from the educational institution you bound yourself to (aka college).

In all of this, though, I will say that packing isn’t some sort of art, it’s not a step-by-step procedure as to “how to do [insert thing you do here]” and it definitely isn’t some sort of natural ability you are born knowing how to do.

Packing is a process, it’s figuring out how to shove a week and a half's worth of clothing into a carry-on sized suitcase… Not easy, let me tell you that. So, wherever and however long you go on your next trip, good luck packing! I hope you more luck than I have and that you have space for whatever you choose to bring back with you.

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To The Girl Who Hasn't Been Herself Lately

Your spark return, and you will shine like you were meant to.

Life gets tough. Life gets too much to handle sometimes, and those times make you stronger. However, right now, it seems like you have lost yourself.

It’s difficult when you catch yourself not being you. When you do something or act a certain way and just wonder, “what did I do to deserve this? Why is this happening? When will it get better?” The way you’re feeling is not so much that you’re unhappy, you just feel weird.

Your day will come. I promise you. This is just a phase.

The day you realize how much you have grown from this point in time will be your reward. It is so hard to see now, and I feel your pain.

Your light will return to you. Your pure bliss moments, they are seeking you. Your laughter where your tummy aches is in your reach.

Our moods change far too often for us as humans to understand why, but the encounters you make every day have this effect on us.

You must remember the pure happiness you experienced before your first heartbreak, before the first friend became someone you thought they weren’t, before you lost your innocence. That was a time of true joy as you had not a care in the world for the things that would harm you. Better yet, you didn’t have the option to experience them because you were just a child.

The world can be an ugly place, and your attitude towards life can change every day. One thing is for certain: you did not lose who you are internally. We all put on a face for the world. For the people who we try to impress. For the life we want to live. For the things we want to achieve.

Your definitive personality is still in the works. Believe it or not, it always will be. Times like this change us for the better even though we can’t see it.

Your happiness will return. You will be a better, stronger version of you. In fact, you will be the best version of you yet.

Once this phase is over, you will be okay. This I promise you.

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10 Things I Wish I Brought To College

All the things you wish you brought to college!


Everyone loves moving in to a luxuries high rise dorm. Decorating and planning out your dorm is the first exciting thing you'll do in college. After my first three months of living in a dorm, I hauled 3 boxes of things back home that I just didn't need. In the meantime, there are so many things I completely forget to bring to college that I need on the daily. Here are 10 things I wish I brought to college!

1. More socks

I swore I brought enough socks when I moved in, but now I am down to two pairs. I can never find socks when I need them. With each load of laundry I do, more and more socks seem to disappear from the earth. Make sure you bring plenty of socks.

2. Hangers

You can never have too many hangers. I have bought at least two more packs this month. Space is limited in your dorm so make sure you use up as much closet space as you can.

3. Medicine

I actually came to college with no medication. Not even a single Advil. The first few weeks of school, everyone is getting sick. You will thank yourself later if you load up now on cough drops, pain reliever, and any other medicines you might need.

4.) My dog

I miss my dogs. Ok, I know I can't take them with me to college, but that doesn't mean I don't wish I could!

5. My sister

The first months of school can be exciting and lonely. I always wish my sister was here to rant to about my day. You will wish everyday that you could bring her with you.

6. Yoga pants

We all think that we are gonna leave the yoga pants in high school and look like goddesses at our colleges. This is false and you will soon realize that even changing out of pajama pants for class is a miracle. Dress cute in August, but come fall you will thank me for telling you to bring your comfy pants!

7. Dry shampoo

Showering is important, but sometimes time slips through our hands. Make sure you are prepared for those in between days by stocking up on dry shampoo!

8. Self control

This can apply to many situations. Spending, homework, and parting. This is the first time in your life that you can make your own rules, so please bring a little bit of self control with you. Your bank account and GPA will thank you later.

9. Money

Save your money before college. If you spend all of the money you earned in high school or got for graduation in the first month of school, you should look back to item number 9. Money is important and is a scarce resource in college. Spend and save it wisely

10. Phone chargers

Like my socks, my phone chargers disappear every day. Make sure you bring a few and keep up with them!

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