I know I am the negative nelly when it comes to relationships, but hear me out on this one.
Most guys in college aren't looking for anything serious unless you meet someone in the 5%.
I have a theory that 5% of guys are honestly pure-hearted souls and well the other 95% are just extremely immature in college. It isn't impossible to meet someone in the 5% because I know a ton of guys in that category that have the purest hearts.
Now, the 95% of guys don't have to be completely terrible but I would suggest staying as far away as possible from these types of guys in college.
I promise you they will just hurt you and probably won't want you for more than one thing.
I get it he's got a cute smile, perfect jawline, piercing blue eyes and a bod.. but is he really worth the heartbreak when you know he's a player? The answer is always no. I can't promise you that you will be able to avoid heartbreak completely, but you can avoid it way more by going after the right guys, rather than the ones that will just use you.
Boys do not necessarily mature relationship wise in college, but that's perfectly okay. I understand that it's human nature to feel like you MUST have someone to be with but don't just settle on anyone. Have standards, let yourself fall in love with someone. I know it's the scariest feeling to put your all into something, but if it's real you will know. Don't be afraid of getting hurt and don't just date someone because of looks, truly let yourself fall with the right guy when he comes along.
I promise college will really be the time of your life but don't be worried if you don't find your guy in college, there's plenty of time later.
Focus on your career, friends, family, and overall experience before putting pressure on dating.