If You're Looking For Guidance In College, Just Go To Sunday Mass

If You're Looking For Guidance In College, Just Go To Sunday Mass

Going to college and becoming an adult is hard, but you are not alone.

College, like learning to drive a car, becoming a legal adult at 18 or taking your first legal drink at 21, is a big step in life. In college, there is so much to adapt to. As students, it is the first time we are living by ourselves in addition to holding ourselves accountable and being responsible without the watchful eyes of our parents. We are going to class, trying to find time to eat, possibly learning how to cook and do laundry for the first time while also trying to have fun and make friends. But most importantly, we are facing the pressure of trying to figure out what to do with our lives. Whether you are a student coming into your first year of college or a student in your fourth year of college, you still may feel confused and lost and that is okay! However, a great way that can help you find guidance through your collegiate journey is by joining a church.

First, besides the religious aspect of church, it is a great and easy way to make and meet friends. At the University of Cincinnati, Crossroads Church Uptown is located right off campus on Calhoun Street, and one of the great things about going to Crossroads is how social it is. When you walk inside Crossroads, you will be greeted, and whether you are a new member or an older member, someone will come talk to you no matter what. With free coffee and tea always offered, it provides a great sense of comfortability and community.

Another great thing about Crossroads Church Uptown is that three services are offered every Sunday at 10:00 a.m., noon, and 7:30 p.m. Being that we have crazy lives as students, numerous students attend the 7:30 p.m. services. Every Thursday Crossroads Church Uptown also holds College Night from 7:00 p.m. to 8:30 p.m. where students gather together to socialize, meet new people, and be in the presence of God.

Second, church is a place of worship, religion, and a place to find guidance from God. Those times as students when we feel confused, lost, or maybe even angered about the events taking place in our lives, church is there as a resource to help. It might be through worship and singing and praising that you might be able to find comfort. Perhaps it could be through the sermon and the message that is conveyed that you find closure. Or maybe it is through prayer in which you find the strength to continue to push through all of the obstacles that being in college throws at you.

Crossroads Church Uptown offers all of these things in addition to other resources. However, you might find that it isn’t the church for you, but that is not the point. As college students, we begin to face the stresses of real life and are presented with obstacles that might put us in difficult situations. There will be times when we don’t really believe our parents can help, and where we don’t know where else to turn, church can help. It may be new and out of your comfort zone; however it might be something that you enjoy and look forward to doing every week. It might be the next big step in your life that provides the guidance you need to help you figure out what you want to do with your life for the rest of your life.

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17 Empowering Bible Verses For Women

You go, girl.

We all have those days where we let the negative thoughts that we're "not good enough," "not pretty enough" or "not smart enough" invade our minds. It's easy to lose hope in these situations and to feel like it would be easier to just give up. However, the Bible reminds us that these things that we tell ourselves are not true and it gives us the affirmations that we need. Let these verses give you the power and motivation that you're lacking.

1. Proverbs 31:25

"She is clothed with strength and dignity and she laughs without fear of the future."

2. Psalm 46:5

"God is within her, she will not fall."

3. Luke 1:45

"Blessed is she who believed that the Lord would fulfill His promises to her."

4. Proverbs 31:17

"She is energetic and strong, a hard worker."

5. Psalm 28:7

"The Lord is my strength and my shield."

6. Proverbs 11:16

"A gracious woman gains respect, but ruthless men gain only wealth."

7. Joshua 1:9

"Be strong and courageous! Do not be afraid or discouraged. For the Lord your God is with you wherever you go."

8. Proverbs 31:30

"Charm is deceptive, and beauty does not last; but a woman who fears the Lord will be greatly praised."

9. 1 Corinthians 15:10

"By the grace of God, I am what I am."

10. Proverbs 31:26

"When she speaks, her words are wise, and she gives instructions with kindness."

11. Psalm 139:14

"I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made."

12. 1 Peter 3:3-4

"Don't be concerned about the outward beauty of fancy hairstyles, expensive jewelry, or beautiful clothes. You should clothe yourselves instead with the beauty that comes from within, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is so precious to God."

13. Colossians 2:10

"And in Christ you have been brought to fullness."

14. 2 Timothy 1:7

"For God has not given us a spirit of fear and timidity, but of power, love, and self-discipline."

15. Jeremiah 29:11

"'For I know the plans I have for you,' says the Lord. 'They are plans for good and not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope.'"

16. Exodus 14:14

"The Lord himself will fight for you. Just stay calm."

17. Song of Songs 4:7

"You are altogether beautiful, my darling, beautiful in every way."

Next time you're feeling discouraged or weak, come back to these verses and use them to give you the strength and power that you need to conquer your battles.

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5 Facts About Spiritual Gifts That You Need To Know

Different gifts, but from the same Spirit


1 Corinthians 12:4-5 states; "[4] There are different kinds of gifts, but the same Spirit distributes them. [5] There are different kinds of service, but the same Lord." We see that there are multiple spiritual gifts, but they all come from the same Lord.

1. We all have different gifts and that's okay


Just like a body has different parts that each has its own function, that's like the body of Christ. We all have different gifts and different purposes, but we're all part of the body of Christ. God has a plan for you and has given you certain gifts. God doesn't call the equipped, he equips the calling.

2. There are various spiritual gifts mentioned in the Bible


Romans 12, 1 Corinthians 12, and Ephesians 4 are some of the bible passages that talk about spiritual gifts. Giving, leadership, mercy, prophecy, service, tongue interpretation, administration, discernment, hospitality, missionary, and evangelism are some of the spiritual gifts that people can have. We can desire any gift, but it's God's choice on what gifts He gives us.

Remember, everyone can receive speaking in tongues via baptism in the Holy Spirit, but not everyone will get the gift of tongue interpretation.

3. Spiritual Gifts are supernatural abilities that are either given or enhanced via the Holy Spirit


God gave us these Spiritual gifts because God wants to invest in His church.

4. Spiritual gifts are for strengthening others


We have spiritual gifts in order to help others.

5. It does take time for gifts to mature and develop


Like with a skill that you have, it does take time for you to own said skill. You put in the work, and because of that, you grow in your skill, and you get better. That's the same way with your gifts. God gives each of us certain gifts to use, and it will take time to mature those gifts.

Spiritual gifts are important.

In Romans 12:6 states; "[6] We have different gifts, according to the grace given to each of us. If your gift is prophesying, then prophesy in accordance with your faith; [7] if it is serving, then serve; if it is teaching, then teach; [8] if it is to encourage, then give encouragement; if it is giving, then give generously; if it is to lead, do it diligently; if it is to show mercy, do it cheerfully."

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