What High School Seniors Should Know Before Moving Away To College

High School Seniors, It's Going To Hit You Fast That College Is A Completely Different Beast

Because there are so many people on campus, people usually are not thinking about what the other person is wearing or doing unless it disrupts them from living their life.


As seniors in high school all over the country are working on their college apps, I recently attended my first week of classes at Rutgers University. In my opinion, I came into Rutgers very prepared for the changes: I read many different blog posts about college life and talked to many of my college friends. But it is never exactly what people say, there is always a twist that makes the experience unique to you. I wanted to share some of the things I knew were going to be different but didn't expect to be so different from college compared to high school. Seniors should know what is ahead of them in a few short months.

When I came to Rutgers, I thought I would make friends instantly. We all hear that college friends are your lifelong friends, so I was very excited. However, making friends takes longer than you might originally think. In the first couple weeks, you talk to so many different people but they all won't be your friends. Your friends will change, you will get closer to some people and more distant from others. When I moved in (I moved in later than the freshman move-in date because I was out of the country), I knew no one. I felt lonely and thought I would never make friends. But coming from a relatively quiet person, don't worry. It takes time but you will make friends.

I met some people from my classes and I also am joining clubs where I have already met people. Also, I would suggest trying to meet people on your floor! Say "hi" to your floormates and smile when you see them, ask how their day was. Also, try talking to people who post on Facebook before you start college. Be involved in orientation. My roommate made a close group of friends with the people she met at orientation and she is loving college!

Since we are on the topic of people and friends, Rutgers is a large state university. When enrolling with Rutgers, I knew a lot of people from my high school would be here but because it is such a large school, I did not expect to run into so many people as often as I did. You may or may not care about this but I thought I would write it down because some people may care about that.

Socially it isn't like high school where people would care about what others think. Because there are so many people on campus, people usually are not thinking about what the other person is wearing or doing unless it disrupts them from living their life. People have so much on their plate that they have to manage by themselves they don't have time to judge or fret over others. This leads me to the next thing which is very different regarding college.

You are responsible for everything by yourself in college. Professors won't always tell you your homework. In all my classes not once has my professor reminded me to do my reading. In fact, you don't even have a close relationship with your professor unless you make the effort to and go to their office hours. Often times the professor won't even know you unless you go their office hours because they teach hundreds of students. In fact, most professors don't even take attendance because of the large class sizes. This probably changes as you advance in your major throughout college but as a first year taking many of the "general" cases I found this to be true. It is definitely something that is taking some time to get used to. You really need to be organized and keep up with your work because it is VERY VERY easy to fall behind in college.

Some ways I keep organized are by keeping a planner. I know everyone says this but it is important to have one in college. It does not have to be a physical one (though I do recommend it) but definitely use one. I also use Google Calendar and the sticky notes app on my Mac. Every morning (when I am not rushing to make my 8 am) I take out some time to plan out my day and look over everything I need to get done. I can't say this enough times, KEEP UP WITH WORK. It is SO easy to fall behind. You are an adult now. Even if you are in-state, you don't have your parents telling you everything to do and not do. Don't go crazy with that freedom: College is the best four, but also four very crucial years of your life.

Seniors, I hope this was helpful when thinking ahead of college life. It is a big change, even to those who are prepared. Good luck with everything ahead!

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If College Majors Were Types Of Coffee

Different coffee styles have different personalities - just like college students.

Everyone knows college students love their coffee. Without this delicious drink of pure happiness, college students wouldn’t be able to stay up late cramming for exams, hanging out with friends, or having a late-night Netflix binge. Just like coffee, there are many different types of college students, from pre-med to English to history. Here are the different majors, described as different styles of coffee.

1. Chemistry - Macchiato

A lot has to go in to make the perfect chemistry major: just like a perfect macchiato. The double shot of espresso is needed for the all night study sessions crammed in before exams 2-3 days a week, and the small dot of foamed milk is the passion that every one of these students have for their area of expertise: whether it’s, pre-med, research, forensics, or any other type of chemistry.

2. Art – Latte

Lattes are made with espresso, steamed milk, and milk froth on top. The milk froth is usually used for a beautiful decoration on the top. Like art majors, lattes can be seen in all different shapes and styles. Creativity is key in art majors and latte’s alike!

3. Education – Frappuccino

Frappuccinos are the milkshake to the coffee world, filled with many different sugary flavors, whipped cream, and sauces. The sugar-induced rush will help you keep up with the children during the day, and the small amount of coffee will keep you up to make plenty of lesson plans!

4. Music – Café Americano

A café Americano is made with two things: espresso and hot water. Music majors are made with two things: music and practicing. The two both require simplicity yet perfection and have no time for excessive things (like milk or free time).

5. Accounting – Iced Coffee

Too much ice leaves the drink watery. Not enough ice leads to a lukewarm, unsatisfying cup of coffee. Only the perfect ratio of coffee to ice makes this drink the ideal drink for accounting majors.

6. History – Flat White

With flat white coffee, you either love it or hate it – just like history. Neither are common, but those who love history or flat whites are 100% compassionate about it.

6. Biology – Mocha

Biology majors need coffee: a lot of it. Hence, the double shot of espresso. Biology majors also need sweetness, hence the chocolate in a mocha. Biology is the perfect blend of the lab and the real world, just like a mocha coffee is the perfect blend of chocolate and coffee. Biology majors and mochas make the world go around and bring a little bit of sweetness to this bitter world.

7. Communications – Affogato

To the outside world, communication majors seem perfectly put together. However, a lot goes into being a good communication major: just like a lot goes into making the perfect affogato. From making the perfect shot of espresso to making the perfect ice cream to pair, communication majors and affogato are perfect together: just like coffee and ice cream.

8. Psychology – Decaffeinated

Psychology majors know the importance of sleep and know that caffeine messes up your sleep cycle. Decaffeinated coffee is perfect for psych majors – and for their sleep.

9. English – a shot of espresso

Most types of coffee begin with espresso. Just like espresso, most of our civilization begins with the English language. English majors and espresso alike are stable to live.

10. Business – Espresso con Panna

Espresso con Panna is a simple shot of espresso with whipped cream. Business majors are a stable, just like the espresso, but add a little pizzazz to life: the whipped cream. Business majors know how to do work and have fun, just like the con Panna.

11. Nursing – Ristretto

Ristretto is a smaller amount of liquid with a higher concentration of caffeine. Nursing students are constantly on the go and need energy without spending a lot of time drinking a load of coffee – and having to frequently use the bathroom to get rid of it. The ristretto is perfect for any and all nursing majors!

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Things I Miss Now That I'm Home From College Again

There are so many reasons to be glad that the school year is over, but if you've done it right... there are a lot of reasons to miss it too.


So, school is over now and I've come home. As expected I was so relieved at first. No more showering with flip-flops, no more listening to screaming girls running up and down the hall, and a space that is mine and mine alone. But after a week or so of being back, there are a few things I've already started to miss.

I know that not every single person has the ideal roommate but I got really lucky with mine. Coming home I was excited to have my own space, but now when I'm doing my midnight scrolling, I'm realizing that I miss being able to talk to her about the funny things I see in that very moment. Tagging, DMing, and texting her doesn't feel the same as a long night of giggles spent together.

Also, while seeing old friends when you get home is amazing, and there is always a lot to catch up on, you do start to miss your other friends too. Being in college means that your friends are going through similar things as you are all the time. You have tests together, clubs together, and sometimes you spend way too much time procrastinating together. The bond you begin to form is one you definitely begin to miss - especially when you guys don't live close off of campus.

Coming home also means you don't have a set schedule or at least not immediately. You may come back to a previous job and that puts something on your calendar, but the free time you still have during the week can be a little too much. I know I've spent way too much time obsessing over the Tati/James drama than I ever would have at school. The routine I had at school kept me busy and entertained, and I'm honestly missing it a lot right now.

There are a lot of other things to miss too - even things you thought you wouldn't. You miss the classes, the teachers, and sometimes the food. I know I miss the environment. It isn't a perfect one, but it's full of people just trying to find their way. We are all working through the roller coaster of life and we are all stuck on one beautiful campus together while we figure it all out. I miss meeting new people at the bus stops or running into old classmates and catching up.

I guess the bonus for me is that I just finished sophomore year which means I have more time to spend at school. Come senior year, I guess I'll have to learn quickly how to deal without the things I miss - and also create a schedule so I can travel to see all of my friends, but those are all problems for future me.

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