College Didn't Change My Life

College Didn't Change My Life

New school, same me.

The first week of college I stepped into the laundry room and witnessed 20 people floundering around the washers unsure what to do. At one point, a boy even asked me which machine was the washer and which was the dryer. Since then, I have seen my friends and hallmates grow — no longer are there white sheets with a slightly pinkish tint or shrunken tee shirts — we’ve really made some big strides since the first day of move-in.

College has taught me a lot, but unlike most, college didn’t change my life — it didn’t majorly alter any of my world or religious views, I didn’t pick up some new, unique hobby, and I didn’t go through that “experimental” phase in college where I tried all of these crazy things. So, for the most part, I am still the same person as I was a year ago. And there’s nothing wrong with that.

I came into college doing my own laundry since the third grade, making my meals since middle school, and being able to advocate for myself. My mom raised me to be self-sufficient and independent from a relatively young age, so when I went off to college, I was already used to this “scary” idea of doing life tasks on my own.

That being said, while all of my friends were struggling to figure out how to use a washing machine, make their own coffee, or email professors, I was fine because I had been doing that most of my life.

My views didn’t change that much because as a fairly introspective person, I spend A LOT of time thinking. I tend to overthink, which can get me into some unnecessary situations, but for the most part, it solidifies my views because I spend a large portion of my time thinking about my beliefs.

And you know what? I am not ashamed that I don’t fit into that “college changed my life” narrative. I am happy with the person I’ve grown into. Besides, I couldn’t imagine figuring out my worldviews, how to do laundry, and making my own food while at the same time trying to figure out calculus.

Cover Image Credit: Rachel Figard

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To The Teacher Who Was So Much More

Thank you for everything

I think it's fair to say that most people remember at least one teacher who had a lasting impact on them. I have been incredibly lucky to have several teachers who I will never forget, but one individual takes the cake. So here's to you: thank you for all you have done.

Thank you for teaching me lessons not just in the textbook.

Although you taught a great lecture, class was never just limited to the contents of the course. Debates and somewhat heated conversations would arise between classmates over politics and course material, and you always encouraged open discussion. You embraced the idea of always having an opinion, and always making it be heard, because why waste your voice? You taught me to fight for things I believed in, and to hold my ground in an argument. You taught me to always think of others before doing and speaking. You showed me the power of kindness. Thank you for all the important lessons that may not have been included in the curriculum.

Thank you for believing in me.

Especially in my senior year, you believed in me when other teachers didn't. You showed me just what I could accomplish with a positive and strong attitude. Your unwavering support kept me going, especially when I melted into a puddle of tears weekly in your office. You listened to my stupid complaints, understood my overwhelming stress-induced breakdowns, and told me it was going to be okay. Thank you for always being there for me.

Thank you for inspiring me.

You are the epitome of a role model. Not only are you intelligent and respected, but you have a heart of gold and emit beautiful light where ever you go. You showed me that service to others should not be looked at as a chore, but something to enjoy and find yourself in. And I have found myself in giving back to people, thanks to your spark. Thank you for showing me, and so many students, just how incredible one person can be.

Thank you for changing my life.

Without you, I truly would not be where I am today. As cliche as it sounds, you had such a remarkable impact on me and my outlook on life. Just about a year has passed since my graduation, and I'm grateful to still keep in touch. I hope you understand the impact you have made on me, and on so many other students. You are amazing, and I thank you for all you have done.

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