The Ride-Or-Die Rider University Bucket List

The Ride-Or-Die Rider University Bucket List

So much to do... so little time

A big trend lately is a bucket list, I have an entirely different "life" bucket, but before I graduate from Rider University, there are some things that I want to do before I leave the place I will be calling home for four years as an undergrad.

1. Collect at least 50 T-Shirts

It's really easy if you apply yourself! So far I have...13

2. Completely conquer my fear of public speaking

I've been working on this since the day I learned how to talk, so MAYBE, just maybe, I can get over it

Sing in front of 400+ college students (R Factor) ✔️

Make a speech (and continue at this point) to make speeches in COM104 ✔️

Talk in class ✔️

Be a student for a day ambassador

Be a tour guide

3. Become an SI ✔️

Basically, this is a tutor designated for a specific course/ class/ professor. I hope to be an SI one day for the professor I had last semester for Intro to Psych. It was one of my favorite classes and I went to SI a lot so hopefully, I can help students who are having difficulty in the class at some point in my college career.

4. Become a PLC Mentor

This stands for Psychology Learning Community Mentor. Everyone there is just so nice. It's a little room in the residence hall I live in and they volunteer to help psych students (or anyone, really) with classes or just to give them advice. I really want to be a part of that if possible.

5. Be a CA

Other schools call it an "RA," I don't know why Rider is different, but I do know my CA last semester was so sweet and helped me out with a bunch of stuff and I want to do that too. (Plus, you get paid and a room to yourself). My goal is to help people in any way possible, and being a CA, specifically in a freshman dorm can help me do that.

6. Start a Club ✔️

Shameless plug for my club on campus called The Rider poetry? Like performing poetry in front of an open-minded audience? Like being a part of the said audience? Join my club! We are open to all sorts of art, poetry or not!

7. Get an on-campus job ✔️

I want to be able to play many roles and wear many hats regarding having an on-campus jo. I hope to be a tour guide and a CA at some point, but this gets a check because I can call myself a supplemental instructor!

8. Study Abroad

I have a huge fear of getting lost in airports/ places I'm unfamiliar with, but studying abroad always looks so much fun and it is a great experience. So I have to get over my fears eventually!

9. Become an OL

This stands for "orientation leader," which all schools have so I won't go into further explanation. However, while I am breaking out of my shell, this requires so much energy and spirit and you have to be really good at talking to people and have leadership skills which now brings me to my next item.

10. Get accepted into Rider's CLDP ✔️

This is basically a Leadership program that helps students form great leadership skills. It's a super strenuous process because of how rewarding the program is so fingers crossed I can mark this one off.

11. Learn how to do actual life skills

Taxes (what they are and how to pay them)

Balancing a checkbook

Maintain a good credit credit

Get a job

Have a killer resume

How to work the health care system

How to budget

...I could go on

12. Go swimming in that pool

The one all the way in the back of campus...

13. Do those classes offered at the gym

...and not be embarrassed to look in the mirror while doing it.

14. Get a 4.0 GPA

A girl can dream.

15. Make some sort of difference

I'm not sure how I can do this, but I'll know once it happens.

16. Get Involved (in the works)

Steps to do so:

1) Be in clubs ✔️
2) Start a club ✔️
3) Claim executive board roles on said clubs ✔️
4) Become a Wellness Ambassador ✔️
5) Become a part of the leadership development program ✔️
6) Get a job ✔️
7) Be a PLC mentor
8) Become a GLASS mentor ✔️
9) Make and maintain friendships for a long time
10) Breath

17. Do research alongside a professor/ adjunct

It is such an honor and a really great opportunity.

18. Conduct my own research

I'm going to have to do this, and it's going to be a really hard process... but I'm excited.

19. Intern

Again, required. But if it's something I want to do then I am super excited for what's to come!

20. Get my degree

...and use that to get a job so I can pay off all the college debt!

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Dear Soon-To-Be Seniors

These are a few things we'd like to tell you about Senior year.

Dear soon-to-be high school seniors,

Goodbye. As the class of ahead of you, we've watched you grow, always one step behind us. As we graduate, there are some things I'd like to tell you about your last year of high school.

Yes, Senior year can be just as amazing as everyone says it is, if you make it that way. But don't think it's a blow-off year with no work. This year may hold some of the most stressful times of your life.Be prepared for late nights writing papers or hard tests that could make or break your graduation status. However, don't stress too much about homework. A question I often asked myself this year was, "in twenty years, will I remember staying up till 2am studying for Econ? Or will I remember a fun night with my friends?" Ok, probably not the best advice if you don't have the best of grades, but most of the time you stress yourself out for no reason and miss out on fun things.

Another thing, try to get on the college grind early. If you haven't already, start looking at colleges and applying! Then narrow it down as soon as you can. You don't want to be stressed about that decision in the last month of senior year. Honestly, the sooner you can make your decision, the happier and less stressed you will probably be.

It's not too late to join new things either; a lot of people join a sport or a club senior year and have a lot of fun because of it. So try that thing you've always wanted to join! Speaking of which, go to prom! I won't tell you prom is the best experience of your life because for some people it's not, but it's pretty amazing. Don't stress too much about getting a date, either the right guy/girl will show up, or you'll just go with your friends and still have a blast.

Don't be too rude to the underclassmen. You were that young just a few years ago. And they're the ones who usually put your senior nights together, so make sure you thank them. Also keep in mind that they are looking up to you. Remember those seniors you looked up to just a few short years ago? Be a good example. Take your place in the school as Seniors and continue where we left off; carry on the legacy of your school and be proud of it.

If your school does Kairos (or a similar senior retreat), be absolutely open to it! If it's your thing, enjoy it! If it's not your thing, still try to be open to it. You don't have to love it, but at least don't hate on it before you've even been. Bonding with your class is a big part of senior year. I made so many new friends this year that I never thought I would if it hadn't been for Kairos.

Speaking of which, be open to new friends. Whether they're seniors or not, talk to everyone. In a few months, you may never see those kids again, so it's worth getting to know them past just being friends on Facebook. Also, don't give up on dating people in your class. Yeah, there's only a few months left and you've spent the last 4 years with these people, but there might be one person out there who could change your whole year for the better if you give them the chance.

Above all, enjoy it. You only get one senior year, so make it count. Go to everything you possibly can: every football game, dance, party, musical, bonfire, etc. Enjoy wearing the jersey of your team for the last time, taking your last bow on your high school stage, and turning in your last final, because it will all be gone within the blink of an eye. You'll find yourself walking down the aisle in a cap and gown of those same school colors you thought you despised (but really, you'll secretly miss). You'll look at your favorite teachers lined up behind you and your family sitting in front of you, and most importantly your class around you, and I hope, I really hope, you don't regret a single moment of senior year.

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Life can throw you curveballs sometimes, and times can get tough, but it is SO important to pick yourself up and trust that you can do anything.


I'll be honest, this school year was one of the hardest years of my life. There were lots of moments throughout the year that I just wanted to go home and get away from it all. I had to be reminded that I have been raised to try as hard as you possibly can, and I was doing that. It took some determination and time, but I didn't give up.

No matter how bad I felt, I stayed and persevered.

Now that I am home for the summer, I have been reminiscing on the past two semesters of school. At the beginning of the school year, I had a much different idea of how it would go. It was going to be "my year," but somehow while the year was going on, I felt that I had been completely wrong. It's easy to come to quick conclusions when life doesn't exactly go your way. Conclusions like "this year has been the worst year ever" and "I can never get a break" were often popping up in my head. My grades weren't where I wanted them, and I was surprised by a lot of occurrences that I never expected to happen (imagine a wild ride). I found out who my true friends are and who I could rely on, and luckily, my circle only grew. Being extremely extroverted, it was hard for me to get out and just do something. Being in this "rut" took a toll on me. I had to make those hard decisions about doing what was best for me in the long run instead of doing something just for the moment. Trust me when I say, this was NOT easy at all.

Through all the tears and change all around me, I decided to proceed to the finish line because I am NOT a quitter.

I decided that it was time for me to allow myself to fully, undeniably be me. I wanted to start doing the little things I enjoy again like working out, taking pictures, and simply just going out to do anything. I started forcing myself to take any opportunity that came my way, and it helped. One of the things that brought me so much joy was kickboxing – talk about therapeutic, people! Kickboxing at least three times a week helped my mood shift so much, and it was a start to seeing me again. I am so blessed with friends who would come over at, literally, any time of the day. Spending time with them helped me more than they could ever know. We did anything from just hanging out in my living room to splurging on a fun dinner. Through everything that I was doing daily, I was learning how to rely on myself. Looking back now, I have never really had to know what it felt like to rely mainly on myself. I did get so much help from my family and friends, but what good could their help do if I didn't want to help myself first?

Even though I felt like this was one of the worst years of my life, it taught me so much more than I ever expected. Looking back now, I grew so, so much. I learned how to smile when times get tough. I learned that it really is okay to not be okay sometimes, and it will be okay eventually. I learned that it's okay to ask for help because we weren't made to do life alone. Most importantly, I learned how to trust myself. My hope for anyone reading this, you will learn from my experience that the worst seasons get better. I am in such a good place right now because I never gave up, and I will continue to never give up. In a short amount of time, I am seeing how far I have come and how much I grew.

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