Hey Little Sis, College Is Going To Be Great

Hey Little Sis, College Is Going To Be Great

College advice from big sisters to little sisters because college is hard, but it's so worth it.


Dear little sister, congratulations! College is some of the most fun I have ever had so far. It's pretty amazing being surrounded by amazing individuals that are motivated and care about you. You are going to do amazing things while you are at school. You have a ridiculous amount of potential and you have the skills to accomplish world-changing, earth-shattering feats. In order to do that, you might want a little bit of advice. I haven't learned much, but I have learned a little.

College isn't all about appearances, but they most certainly help. You should eat well, but don't say no to ice cream. Eat breakfast and throw in a little protein every day to make sure that you're doing your part to stay healthy. Make sure you wear something other than your pajamas to class and don't wear your lanyard around your neck. You will definitely feel better. Side note: people giggle a little when freshmen wear their lanyards. Make sure that you brush your teeth and take care of yourself. If you get sick, go to Student Health. If you need a flu shot, go to Student Health. If you are looking for nutrition advice, go to Student Health. They have a ton of resources that you pay for anyway, so use them!

With regards to class, there are just a few tips that I have. Make sure that you are considerate to each individual that is in your class. Don't type too loud or take up more than one seat in class. Honestly, you should probably not take courses before 10 a.m. because they can be difficult to motivate yourself to go to. If your class is reading-heavy, try reading ahead. Getting behind is not in your favor, but you also shouldn't stress either. Make a schedule and stick to it — it's extremely helpful for accomplishing projects and hitting deadlines. Check your email several times per day and always make sure to respond to professors. Not only do they expect a response, but they are often working for your benefit, so make sure you give them the thanks they deserve.

Outside of class, you should do your best to relax and have a blast. College is supposed to be pretty fantastic, so make sure you take advantage of it! That being said, you don't have to go out to a party to have fun. My friends and I do movies nights where we all get in our pajamas and watch comedies until we run out of snacks. Having fun is super important, but make sure you do some work too. Fill out a LinkedIn profile and apply for an internship or job on campus. You will be thankful that you started thinking about your future early.

A few random suggestions include doing your laundry in the mornings, keep your backpack light, carry your own whiteboard markers, get an oil diffuser, and try to keep a plant alive. There's definitely a learning curve you will hit once you get to college, but it doesn't have to shatter your world. Call Mom and Dad every once in a while and tell them about the cool stuff you're doing, then actually listen to their "glory day" stories. They appreciate the communication more than you know.

Little sis, college is awesome. I'm really excited about you embarking on this adventure in your life. If you need anything, you know I'm here for you.

Love your big sis!

P.S. WEAR YOUR SHOWER SHOES — bathroom floors are gross.

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50 One-Liners College Girls Swap With Their Roomies As Much As They Swap Clothes

"What would I do without you guys???"

1. "Can I wear your shirt out tonight?"

2. "Does my hair look greasy?"

3. "We should probably clean tomorrow..."

4. "What should I caption this??"

5. "Is it bad if I text ____ first??"

6. "Should we order pizza?"

7. *Roommate tells an entire story* "Wait, what?"

8. "How is it already 3 AM?"

9. "I need a drink."

10. "McDonalds? McDonalds."


12. "Okay like, for real, I need to study."

13. "Why is there so much hair on our floor?"

14. "I think I'm broke."

15. "What do I respond to this?"

16. "Let's have a movie night."

17. "Why are we so weird?"

18. "Do you think people will notice if I wear this 2 days in a row?"

19. "That guy is so stupid."

20. "Do I look fat in this?"

21. "Can I borrow your phone charger?

22. "Wanna go to the lib tonight?"

23. "OK, we really need to go to the gym soon."

24. "I kinda want some taco bell."

25. "Let's go out tonight."

26. "I wonder what other people on this floor think of us."

27. "Let's go to the mall."

28. "Can I use your straightener?"

29. "I need coffee."

30. "I'm bored, come back to the room."

31. "Should we go home this weekend?"

32. "We should probably do laundry soon."

33. "Can you see through these pants?"

34. "Sometimes I feel like our room is a frat house..."

35. "Guys I swear I don't like him anymore."

36."Can I borrow a pencil?"

37. "I need to get my life together...."

38. "So who's buying the Uber tonight?"

39. "Let's walk to class together."

40. "Are we really pulling an all-nighter tonight?"

41. "Who's taking out the trash?"

42. "What happened last night?"

43. "Can you help me do my hair?"

44. "What should I wear tonight?"

45. "You're not allowed to talk to him tonight."

46. "OMG, my phone is at 1 percent."

47. "Should we skip class?"

48. "What should we be for Halloween?"

49. "I love our room."

50. "What would I do without you guys???"

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Let Me Fill You In On A Secret, Being The Middle Child Is Not That Bad

The middle child has its perks even though I am stuck in between two crazy, wild sisters.


As I was getting older, I always heard the middle child complain about how it sucks to be in that position. Sometimes I would play along and groan about how I also hated being the middle child but in reality, it was not all that bad. I never truly felt the same exact way that those kids felt. My siblings never made me feel like I was less than them, even though my sister was the star student at my high school. I have read some articles online about different traits that the middle child has and some I agree with and some I was like, "Eh, that is not right." I think most of it comes from the family that you grow up in. So maybe, just maybe, it is because my family is the best of them all!

The common annoyance that the middle child has to endure is that they are usually the "forgotten ones". For me, that was not the case. I am ALWAYS given the attention that I need. Except when we are all in conversation. Mom, I am sorry for including this and please do not feel bad but I have to expose it. Whenever there is a conversation, I am very rarely heard. I do not need pity or anything like that, I just don't make myself known when I am saying something and that is my mistake. I always bring it up to my mom and it makes her feel so bad so I apologize for including this, J9. Other than that, I am always in the spotlight. They are always checking up on me, always including me, and always reminding me that I am the favorite (sorry Al and Kate)!

A trait that I have learned about the middle child, that I do believe holds true, is that we are the peacemakers. To me, that isn't really a bad thing. I noticed over the years that I am able to settle things and bring calmness to catastrophe with the slightest bit of advice or simple "shut up this is stupid". I have always been that way though. I am constantly trying to make sure that everyone is getting along, happy, and not wanting to jump off the roof. Some may also call me a people pleaser but I just ignore that. I am THE peacemaker. I like to get involved and I am super nosey. Oops!

I really don't think that the "middle child syndrome" pertains to me because I live a pretty joyful, fun life with all eyes on me. I love making people laugh, I like talking about my interests, I like playing games with friends and family, and so much more. I rarely feel like I am the forgotten one due to my siblings. If my sisters read this, they are definitely going to pull my hair considering I have just been tooting my own horn about how great I am. So if you are reading this Kate and Al, let me have my moment since apparently, I do not have enough spotlight already!

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