Every year on December 25th, people around the world gather to celebrate Christmas. They exchange gifts, make gingerbread houses and sip on hot cocoa. At least that is what I have gathered from years of watching Christmas movies. You see December 25th is a little different for the Jews. For me, December 25th is just December 25th. Its another day in the year. The only thing that really makes this day special is the fact that I never have to go to school and often end up seeing a fantastic movie.
When I was younger I desperately wanted to celebrate Christmas. I wanted to make gingerbread men and leave them out for Santa with a glass of milk. I wanted to wake up Christmas morning to a beautifully decorated tree, surrounded by presents and family. I was desperate to experience the so-called "Christmas Spirit" all of my friends had talked about. I tried so hard to convince my parents to get a Christmas tree. I told my mom it was not so much about Christmas as much as it was a great way to decorate our house. She, however, constantly reminded me that we were Jewish and that Jews do not have Christmas trees.
As I got older, my desire to celebrate turned into discomfort with how much the holiday was shoved down my throat. Starting as early as November, I find Christmas begins to seep into the world. It starts out as the occasional string of twinkle lights. Then wreaths begin appearing on doors. By the first week in December, trees are decorated, festive lights are hung everywhere and Christmas music plays 24/7. It is as if Christmas invades every year and there is nowhere to run or hide.
Now, I have absolutely no problem with other people enjoying the holiday. I think fairy lights are beautiful and I am happy to share the occasional gingerbread cookie; but please do not be offended if I refrain from "getting into the Christmas Spirit". It does not make me a "Grinch" if I chose not to go caroling or if I don't want to hear Christmas music on a perpetual loop (although it is beautiful, so I might). It's just that this is not my holiday. Many may consider it an American holiday, but I do not and therefore have no desire to celebrate it.
So, Merry Christmas to all (those who celebrate)! And to all my Jews out there, I hope you have a great day too and enjoy this video that perfectly summarizes what we do every year.