It is OK for me to not want to be equivalent with a man.
To start off, I am not writing this to bash feminists or get hate messages. I am simply writing this to state why I do not perceive myself as a feminist.
March is International Women's Month and that is what has got me thinking about how I view myself as a young woman in the 21st century. I enjoy every day getting to soak up the world as a young lady, particularly in the South.
If you know me, then you know that I love and utterly adore Jesus. He is so perfect. He is everything. He is my whole life. Some people might say that I am a "Bible-thumper" or someone who has had too much Kool-aid and maybe I am, but I know who my Creator is and that He died for me, and that is all that matters.
In my young age, I loved to just sit in church with my parents and absorb all that God would deliver. As I have grown up, I have ventured off and joined a church that is different than my parents, so the responsibility falls more on me, but I love that. Since this era of independence began, I have thoroughly enjoyed taking ownership of my faith.
I spend a lot of time chatting with God, worshipping Him in all kinds of ways, and just diving deeper into His Word. Through all of this growth as a Christian, I have learned a lot, but something I have learned is a concept that some may not agree with, which does not surprise me.
I do not believe God meant for women and men to be equal.
There, I acknowledged the elephant in the room.
It is a shocker, I know, but I have some Biblical evidence to back up this belief that I have.
Let us begin in Genesis. God created man and then he created woman. This was two separate occurrences and order is key. He created Adam and then Eve.
Jesus treated women with grace and kindness, do not get me wrong. I mean just look at how He treated the woman at the well, the one who used all of her expensive perfume to cleanse His feet and not to mention His own biological mother! He has a truly unique place in his heart for women, but He also has special intentions for us in the world and in the family setting.
We are to submit to our husbands.
We are to be energetic, strong, and a hard worker.
We are to be busy and helpful to those in need.
We are to be fearless.
All of this is explicitly laid out by God in Proverbs 31.
We are not to be equal to our male counterparts. Jesus does not lay out the Proverbs 31 man, but He rather lays out the Proverbs 31 woman.
A husband or man is to be the head of the household as Christ is to the church.
A man is to love a woman so deeply that represents how he loves himself.
A man is to leave his father and mother.
Women and men are not equal in God's eyes, but they each represent Him in their own ways that the other needs.
If we were all equal, we would not need one another and therefore we would not need God. I am so thankful that we were not created equal. I am so thankful that God is so great that He could not just create only man or woman to represent His image. He is so perfect.
So, you see I am not a feminist, and it is OK.
It is acceptable for me to have this belief that God intended for men to lead women. It is also okay for people to have differing opinions. Writing this was not easy, but I know that not all people agree.
To feminists and those that are not, you are allowed to believe whatever you wish but have evidence to back it up.