To The Family I Chose, Thank You For Choosing Me Right Back

To The Family I Chose, Thank You For Choosing Me Right Back

You will always have a special place in my heart.

My family story is complicated.

One side of my family is close as can be, while the other side is basically a group of strangers with similar DNA.

Then, there's the family that isn't really family at all, but rather people I choose to surround myself with.

So, for those who choose to make an effort in my life, this one is for you.

To the "family" that I have chosen:

Whether we are related by blood or not, you make an effort for me to be in your life. Thank you.

Thank you for lifting me up and making me feel good about myself. Thank you for opening my eyes to the reality around me when I try my hardest to ignore it.

You have most likely seen me at my highest and my lowest points, and I trust you with my life.

You will never know how much it means to feel safe and loved with you.

So many people have left me and decided that I wasn't worth the work; thank you for thinking otherwise.

I love you dearly.

You are not just family, but you are friends. And you are not just my friends, but you are my family.

I chose the relationships we have.

Through the ups and downs, please know that you will always have me.

I know that I will have you.

Please don't be afraid to reach out anytime you need me.

Thank you for being the family that I've always wanted, and didn't know that I needed.

You bring out the best of me while also showing me what is best for me. I appreciate that more than anything.

You will always have a special place in my heart.

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To The Grandmothers Who Made Us The Women We Are Today

Sincerely, the loving granddaughters.

The relationship between a grandmother and her granddaughter is something so uniquely special and something to be treasured forever.

Your grandma loves you like you are her own daughter and adores you no matter what. She is the first person you run to when you have a problem with your parents and she never fails to grace you with the most comforting advice.

She may be guilty of spoiling you rotten but still makes sure to stress the importance of being thankful and kind.

Your grandma has most likely lived through every obstacle that you are experiencing now as a young adult and always knows just exactly what to say.

She grew up in another generation where things were probably much harder for young women than they are today.

She is a walking example of perseverance, strength, and grace who you aim to be like someday.

Your grandma teaches you the lessons she had to learn the hard way because she does not want you to make the same mistakes she did when she was growing up.

Her hugs never fail to warm your heart, her smile never fails to make you smile, and her laugh never fails to brighten your day.

She inspires you to be the best version of yourself that you can be.

You only hope that one day you can be the mother and grandmother she was to you.

A piece of girl’s heart will forever belong to her grandma that no one could ever replace.

She is the matriarch of your family and is the glue that holds you all together.

Grandmothers play such an important role in helping their granddaughters to grow into strong, intelligent, kind women.

She teaches you how to love and how to forgive.

Without the unconditional love of your grandma, you would not be the woman you are today.

To all of the grandmothers out there, thank you for being you.


the loving granddaughters

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Poetry On The Odyssey: You Don't Control Me

If I could speak to my anxiety, here is what I'd say.



You have controlled my life for way too long.

My constant fears hold me back from so many things I want to be able to do.

Your presence makes me a person I don't want to be.

You make me feel scared and alone when I know that I am not alone.

You don't control me.

I am not free to be myself when you are around.

There is no use for you, and you should be ashamed for making me feel sick, nervous, fearful, not good enough.

You have been a little monster, harboring inside of me for my whole life.

Whispering "You can't do that" in my ear when I dare to get out of my comfort zone.

You don't control me.

I am fully capable of doing great things and living without you.

I have a wonderful support system of people who believe in me and help me crush you every day as you deserve.

I will be brave, be bold, enjoy life more.

This is me saying "Sayonara Anxiety."

You don't control me.

I am going to take my life back from your filthy grip.

I am going to live the life I've dreamt of.

I am going to be adventurous and take risks.

I am going to be myself.

You don't control me.

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