Chivalry is not dead, yet visions of knights in shining armor on white horses is rare in modern days. Rather, chivalry has become part of a border category of kindness. You know, that thing that you are taught in kindergarten about “treating others how you want to be treated.” Sexism, however, is evident throughout today’s society and can manifest itself in ways that people don’t even realize.

I am a woman who thinks it is perfectly acceptable for a man to hold open the door for her. No, I am not one to enjoy being doted on or fussed about. I am a woman who appreciates kindness. Would I be as appreciative if a woman held the door open for me? Yes. It makes me happy to see others spreading kindness. Also, if I hold the door open, whether for a male or a female, it is with no intentions other than doing a favor and being kind. For a man to hold open the door, it is often considered a remnant of the chivalry of 16th century knights.

To my knowledge, a woman holding open a door is not an outward display of power but yes, women can hold open doors, too. As much of a fuss as people can make about it being sexist, a man holds open a door for a woman but it is an outward display of feminism and power for woman to do the same for a man? To some, I’m sure this is exactly what it is, and it is done with much pride. Personally, I understand feminism on the terms that males and females are not equal in society, the economy, and most definitely not politics. Feminism is the desire for women to be seen as equals, and an appreciation of the power of females. Yet, I am not one to see the harm in allowing a man to hold open the door for you, or a woman for that matter.

Remember that thing called kindness? Or even those manners that your mother taught you about when you were young? I’m just asking people everywhere to understand the power of a simple act of kindness. Every once in a while go out and do something nice. You could be surprised at the reactions that you will get. Don’t do it with chivalry in mind, and the feeling that it is a man’s job to hold doors open for weak, helpless women. Don’t do it with a feminist angst and the desire to show those damned men that we can hold open a door, too. (Although let’s face it, we can, fellows. It’s no big deal.) Do this with the intention that a small act of kindness can brighten someone’s day and inspire them to do the same.