​To My Childhood Best Friend Thought Of As A Sister, Now That We're Old AF

​To My Childhood Best Friend Thought Of As A Sister, Now That We're Old AF

Growing is a part of life, sometimes it sucks.

First of all, I miss you. I'm sure you know. I miss everything.

You know the nights we stayed up late just talking. Those nights where one of us would fall asleep while the other kept on talking. I miss those nights. I miss the conversations we had about life. Conversations about everything we were going through without the judgement. But I don’t know if I’ll ever get those nights back. I don’t know if we’ll have our taco bell dates, loving the same people, and singing loudly to show tunes in the car on our way to god knows where.

This isn’t something that is to pass blame on someone. It’s a part of life. It’s something that I will always cherish even though we both have grown up and moved on. Life happens and I’m not mad about it. I moved away. I got into tough situations that I constantly complained about. You moved on and succeeded far beyond me. None of this I resent.

I just want you to know that our distance has nothing to do with you. I pushed you away. I needed to grow up and for some reason I believed that you deserved better. So I let you get a better best friend. I didn't lose. You didn't lose. You are an amazing friend and everyone needs a freind like you to uplift them and be positive and beautiful.

I have several sisters and I considered you one of them as well. Where you could walk into my house and no one would question it. Whenever I would come home from school and you would come over right away. You were like family and my family loved you. I loved you.

But, again, life happens. We get separated. We change our personality and qualities.

I’m so lucky that I got to spend my last years at home with you. I’m so lucky that I could live that part of my life with you. It gave me confidence to move to college. To get all my frustrations out and be okay. You put up with all my shit and I am forever grateful.

I cannot wait to see your future. I know you have great things in store for you and I cannot wait to find out what they are. I’ll always miss you and those high school days.

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1. They will do anything for you, literally.

My stepdad has done any and every thing for me. From when I was little until now. He was and still is my go-to. If I was hungry, he would get me food. If something was broken, he would fix it. If I wanted something, he would normally always find a way to get it. He didn't spoil me (just sometimes), but he would make sure that I was always taken care of.

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2. Life lessons.

Yup, the tough one. My stepdad has taught me things that I would have never figured out on my own. He has stood beside me through every mistake. He has been there to pick me up when I am down. My stepdad is like the book of knowledge: crazy hormonal teenage edition. Boy problems? He would probably make me feel better. He just always seemed to know what to say. I think that the most important lesson that I have learned from my stepdad is: to never give up. My stepdad has been through three cycles of leukemia. He is now in remission, yay!! But, I never heard him complain. I never heard him worry and I never saw him feeling sorry for himself. Through you, I found strength.

3. He loved me as his own.

The big one, the one that may seem impossible to some step parents. My stepdad is not actually my stepdad, but rather my dad. I will never have enough words to explain how grateful I am for this man, which is why I am attempting to write this right now. It takes a special kind of human to love another as if they are their own. There had never been times where I didn't think that my dad wouldn't be there for me. It was like I always knew he would be. He introduces me as his daughter, and he is my dad. I wouldn't have it any other way. You were able to show me what family is.

So, dad... thanks. Thanks for being you. Thanks for being awesome. Thanks for being strong. Thanks for loving me. Thanks for loving my mom. Thanks for giving me a wonderful little sister. Thanks for being someone that I can count on. Thanks for being my dad.

I love you!

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An Open Letter To The Friend Who Continues To Save My Life

No one knows me like you do.


From the day we became friends, we have always had nothing but support for one another. Although we have only really been friends for about seven years now, I feel as if you have always been a part of my life. You know me just as well as you know yourself, and I understand you in the same way I understand my own thoughts and feelings.

You have never made me feel pressured, insecure, or unappreciated. The mutual respect we have for one another is unmatched. We can talk to each other about anything; from some of the most trivial topics to entire life philosophies. We have grown and matured together, and I couldn't be more proud of the person you are today.

We don't always agree on everything, and I always appreciate your fresh point of view, but I have never felt more in sync with another person than I do with you. We share the same birth month, the same age, the same home town, the same anxieties, and many of the same attitudes and values.

I feel as if you know exactly when I want to be alone and when I need company. Since we are both introverted, we understand that the other person needs time to recharge. And when I'm sitting alone with nothing to do, I always get a text from you asking to hang out.

In some of my loneliest, most vulnerable moments, you have been there. When I question how many true friends I really have, you are always sure to make your love for me known.

Through high school, and now college, we have experienced so many life-changing events together. Some that have taught us extremely valuable lessons, and others that have shown us incredible pain and how to grow from our lowest moments.

I want to thank you for showing me what life-long friendship looks like. Thank you for always understanding me and never putting too much pressure on me. I see an incredible future for both of us no matter where each of our lives takes us.

We will always share a unique connection that cannot be separated by any distance. But, for now, I'm glad you're only one text or phone call away.

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