Offset should back off from Cardi B

Offset Should Knock It Off And Leave Cardi B ALONE

Popular opinion or not: Offset should back down and let Cardi B LIVE HER LIFE


We all saw Cardi B post on her social media about the end of her marriage with Offset. Their relationship did not hide much from the public. She even titled her album "Invasion of Privacy" because she has found that the whole world is up in her business and in her life with this (semi) new-found fame she has. She was (supposedly) dating Offset even before the release of her hit song "Bodak Yellow". The pair were dating throughout 2017 and by the end, were engaged (with a ring that cost upwards of $500,00 no less). Cardi B gave birth to their child (Kulture). Not long after, Cardi B posted the video to social media confirming the end of her marriage with Offset.

There has been speculation about why the two split. Most people think it has to do with trust issues left behind from Offset's cheating habits. Others think Cardi B realized she deserved better. Maybe he was not ready to be the father Kulture needed. Whatever the speculation may be, Cardi B said in her video that the pair had simply just fallen out of love with each other. She posted the video and did not seem to want to discuss the issue any further (which is probably why she posted the video of her own accord in the first place).

Offset took a different route when handling this divorce. He took to social media to blame the pressures from the public for their split by commenting, "Y'all won" on Instagram He also tweeted several times about how he misses Cardi B and how he wants her back. He has been extremely vocal about his emotions during the weeks since the two have split. He also posted (at least) one video about how sorry he was for cheating and how he was ready to be the husband Cardi deserves and the father Kulture deserves.

His barrages on social media have attracted so much attention to a divorce that frankly warranted the same amount of privacy as any other divorce. Of course, being as in the public eye as the two are, even apart from each other, their divorce will be at least a little public. That being said, my humble opinion (which holds no weight in his ultimate life decisions) is that Offset should leave Cardi B THE HECK alone. Allow me to explain:

He has been tweeting and posting on social media constantly about how he wants her back and how he deserves her back. We all can understand how this is annoying and hurtful to Cardi B. But, Offset interrupted her set during Rolling Loud with cake and flowers to publicly beg for her back. Let's unpack this, shall we? Cardi B went from being homeless to topping charts and headline festivals. She has become wildly successful, deserves her success, and did it herself with her passion and hard work. Offset disregarded her hard work and her career by interrupting her show and belittling what she has built to set the stage for his "big apology". The crowd even sang Happy Birthday to Offset and then began chanting about how Cardi B needs to take Offset back. How frustrating must that be?

At the end of the day, Cardi B deserves a man who gives her space and the time she needs both on and off the line. She deserves a man who respects her career and who doesn't interrupt her show and justify it by saying "You weren't even singing bruh". Cardi B deserves better than the man Offset has been presenting and he needs to back off and leave her alone.

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18 Times Kate Middleton Was Actually All Of Us In College, Beside The Princess Thing

Every girl has to go through her clueless college stage before she reaches Duchess status.

Kate Middleton is basically a household name by now, and how could this not be the case when she has the gorgeous hair, kind smile, and incredible fashion sense. With her constantly in the spotlight looking so put together, we sometimes forget that the Duchess was actually all of us in college!

Here are 18 times that Kate proved she was just like all of us.

1. Going all out in the name of school spirit

There is nothing like breaking out the war paint and screaming for your home team. Like Kate, we all love to get a little messy and make some memories with our friends.

2. Hanging out with the roomies

Some people may not get lucky in this area but for those who are best friends with their roommates, they understand the love. It's a dream come true for everyone who has always wanted to live with their best friends. It's like a sleepover that never ends.

3. Dressing up cute on the first day of school...

You got to make a good first impression on your way to school. Whether it's during your 7 A.M or 4 P.M., it's always best to dress to impress.

4. ...and wearing yoga pants for the rest of the year

And this goes all the way until the last week of school when you don't bother getting out of bed to wear pants at all.

5. Going grocery shopping and throwing in cookies, ice-cream, and every type of Pringles because your mom isn't there to say no

You'll probably regret that in a few months when the Freshman Fifteen kicks in.

6. Walking for miles from your car to your dorm carrying groceries

We can't park by the apartment for a solid five minutes to carry our groceries up to the kitchen or we will risk a ticket, but we can walk a few miles carrying food that gets heavier, and heavier, and heavier with every step.

7. Going out for a night on the town on a Friday night

Dancing, laughter, and fun? Everyone in college has been to a party or two. It's a classic part of the college experience. Sometimes you just need a distraction from all the essays and tests.

8. Being so late to class you threw on whatever your hands grabbed next

We've all been there. Our alarm doesn't go off, we press snooze a few too many times, or forget to even set an alarm and next thing you know we are running around the dorm room like Taz from Looney Toons. You throw on whatever, then run to class.

Unfortunately 9/10 times our outfits don't turn out. Although, Kate can certainly pull off this look, no matter how mismatched.

9. Pretending your walking to the same building as the cute boy you met so you have the excuse to keep talking to him

I am very guilty of doing this. Although I missed my class, at least I got to talk to the really cute boy who has class at 9:45 in the STEM building. It was worth it.

10. Sitting on the floor or standing because you're a poor college student who can't afford chairs or tables

Eating on the floor? Always. Being a college kid is tough and sometimes you have to sacrifice some things to obtain the others. Such as choosing chocolate milk and Halo Top over vegetables and hair conditioner.

Judging by Kate's beautiful locks, she chose the conditioner.

Probably the vegetables too.

We should just all follow her example.

11. Going on cute date with the boy you followed to class-turned-boyfriend

Now my short-lived romance may not have extended farther than us talking and walking to his class, but Kate and William obviously had a better ending. Nevertheless, college is the place to grow and date and possibly find the one.

12. Keeping your hair long and growing because you can't afford to get it cut

Don't trust your roommate. No matter how many times she begs you to let her cut it. Don't.

13. Turning 21 and getting dressed up and going out with your best friends

While this one probably doesn't apply to Kate, since you can drink at age 18 in most countries, all my people in the United States know the sweet freedom of turning 21. It's an iconic time in a students life and marks a huge milestone as well.

14. Passing out flyers for some type of movement or protest

Everyone wants to be a part of something bigger - which is why college is the time to stand up for what you believe in. May that be RedforEd, Planned Parenthood, anti-Abortion, Trump, the Wall, pizza bagels, it's all an exercise of the first amendment.

15. Ranting to your friends about the professor that just "doesn't understand you"

You know your thinking about that professor right now as you read this. And you know that that's your reaction whenever they give you a bad grade or say something you disagree with at the tiniest degree.

16. Getting glammed-up for those senior photos

Pick out your best outfit and make sure it's a good hair day because everyone will be viewing these photos forever... and in Kate's place that is more than true. Luckily she looks as gorgeous as ever. Does she ever have a bad hair day?

17. Walking out of your last class knowing you'll never have to write a single paper again

And purposefully not thinking about how you will be going into the real world in less than a few days.

18. When you've graduated and realized you have no idea what you're going to do with your life

Maybe a prince will be right around the corner to sweep you off your feet so you won't have to figure your life out.
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The Kate Spade Foundation Follows Through On Their Million Dollar Promise

One year and a million dollars later, the fight against mental health issues continues.


Going through a mental illness can be one of the most isolating and lonely feelings known to man. When you're in that state of mind it's hard to imagine that anyone could feel as bad as you do right then and there let alone have gone through something similar. Not only that, but many people will suffer in silence, avoiding speaking up or asking for help. Which, if anyone who's battled a mental illness would know, is not an uncommon feeling.

It's hard to speak up and ask for help, especially with something that feels so deeply personal and at times hard to describe. Many people find ways to cope and regain a balance in their lives. Many others never find that balance.

Roughly one year ago, on June 5, 2018, Kate Spade took her own life after battling depression and anxiety for nearly her entire life. It seemed completely out of the blue and nearly everyone was taken aback. But that's the nature of mental illness in some ways. We don't understand the severity or how deeply someone may have been struggling with their mental illness until it's too late.

The reality of mental health is often harrowing, especially when it comes to access to help. An increasing number of Americans are seeking help for a mental health condition but millions still remain with unmet needs or an undiagnosed condition. Many states with a mental health work provider workforce have only one worker for every four individuals requesting therapy.

But there are organizations across the nation who are working to make mental health care not only more accessible but affordable as well. The Kate Spade New York Foundation has just completed their $1 million donation pledge to mental health services such as The Jed Foundation and the Crisis Text Line.

Kate Spade's death, alongside those such as Anthony Bourdain and Robin Williams, proved to many of us that mental health issues affect us all regardless of our wealth, fame or status. In the time following their deaths, I felt that we've become more honest with ourselves and worked hard to destigmatize mental health as a whole. Her death raised the conversation surrounding mental health to new levels that I don't think had previously been touched. Regardless, there's always more work to be done and we should all aspire to live in a world where those affected with these illnesses no longer feel alone.

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