Does being called a "slut" bother you? Why? Don't let it!

"Sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurts me."

Women and men who are openly confident and comfortable with their sexuality shouldn’t be ashamed of their bodies and their openness to their sexuality. The word “slut” is still considered an insult. But to be honest, a word is just a word. If you want to wear a low cut shirt or high cut dress go for it! Don't let what people might say about you affect your happiness and comfort in your own skin.

If you’re concerned about friends and others who judge your sexuality choices, just let it go. Everyone has the right to their own opinions.

So how do we be open to everyone?

1. Do not pay any mind to what others think of you.

If you do find yourself worrying about what other people say about you, make the effort to let it go. You don't need that negativity in your life!

2. Focus on learning your own lessons about life, relationships and sex.

Other people will always have an influence on your life, but remember to put yourself first! What you think about yourself is infinitely more important than what other people think of you.

3. Share your stories and advice.

Spread the positivity! If you have something helpful to offer, do it. If people helped each other in this world instead of trying to beat each other and be the best, the world would be a much more peaceful place.

4. Be a better listener.

Don't let your preconceived opinions and worldview get in the way of listening to others. Just because you have been taught by parents, peers, and/or the media that a woman having sex with more than one partner makes her a "slut," try to back up and see the bigger picture. Do you actually believe that, or are you just conditioned to think that way? Try to look at things from the opposite perspective. And don't be afraid to change your mind.

5. Have fun and just live your life.

As long as you are having fun and are happy, who cares what other people are doing? Life is too short not to do what you want to. If it makes you happy, do it!

6. Give love.

If we all gave love instead of passing judgment, perhaps we would have world peace. Don't harbor hatred for the girl who slept with your boyfriend years ago. She's not a "slut." Learn to love your fellow humans rather than compete with them.

7. Do not judge people by their choices or appearances.

Remember the old saying, don't judge a book by its cover? If you see a girl at a party, and your first thought is that she looks like a "slut," take a step back and re-think it.

Another thought: if our physical appearances were determined by the words we speak, what would you look like?

8. Be the friend you'd want to have.

Remember the golden rule: treat others how you want to be treated? Apply it to your friendships, relationships, and daily interactions with others.

9. Be honest.

10. Embrace openness.

Those who embrace their openness are the friends you need in your life! You will learn so much from them and probably be friends until the end.

Don’t let words change you and the way you want to live your life. Just know that if others around you judge you means their missing out on living life to fullest. I respect everyone's opinions. No hate!