Why I took a break from writing

Returning To Writing

Meditating on what it means to be an online creator...


Attention, attention...it appears as though I had fallen off the face of this platform for about two months and maybe this platform is the only means by which you conceptualize me. If it is the case that my existence to you may be as the voice of reason on a digital page and that my disappearance upset, disrupted, disturbed, or even confused you, I apologize. In order to practice what I try not to "preach" in my writing, I took a much needed hiatus.

I would rather not resume pushing out pieces without addressing this because it seems intrinsic to what I have been ultimately trying to discuss with my audience all along. To be vulnerable, honest, and upfront about this break we took is something I avoided. I avoided thinking about why I couldn't write for two months and why I couldn't even write the terrible first drafts to edit and completely destroy until they became something coherent and beautiful. It felt as though I was put on mute.

Sometimes, for whatever reason whether it be unpaid bills, medical emergencies, cases of a terribly broken heart, funks, trips to places without wifi, breaking your typing fingers, moving and losing your lucky shirt, totaling the car, becoming an aunt-you will not do whatever it is you might actually need to do the most or benefit the most from in that period. For me, that "thing" that is the balm is writing.

Growing up in the digital age with all of the advantages and curses that come along with this, it seems our generation of twenty-somethings are conditioned to believe a constant broadcasting of our lives, ideas, and intimate spaces is normal (usually, with the caveat that these broadcastings be the most complimentary to our digital image as possible). I think we all know a friend who contemplated deleting their social media altogether or took a vacation and likely failed at taking said vacation.

I could write an entire series on social media and its duality, there would be a piece on the deceit of the filtered and the amazing marketing techniques that are possible (those articles will come). But, this piece is more about how social media and an online presence in any form demands that we consider how we present ourselves to the world every single time we post. We all know that whatever pages associated with our name on a Google search and the first five minutes of conversation we have with someone will probably be how they first try to understand us. How does this radically change the magnitude of pressure one might feel to "brand" themselves?

So, in my two month break, I spent a lot of time thinking about what content I have presented to you all and I considered what content I most wanted to see from creators I follow. I think many of us are yearning for more authentic reality and for bold, bare-all confessions about our everyday mundane, rather than just the highest of highs. If Instagram is for the highlights and your less advertised so-called "finstagram" is for the lows, where do we find the rest? The rest is our lived experiences, everything else we do outside the square and the boomerang and the however many characters we are given.

I needed a break from writing as I grappled with all of these ideas, moving into my twenties, and learning about how the beast that is the online world can be harnessed to do so much good, if only we take back control of what we consume and how we consume it as well as with what we present and how we decide to present it. I encourage all of you to take whatever time you might desire away from the online in order to learn, grow, and create without barriers. While, I was not publishing pieces for two months, I was processing-writing while not writing. Before writing truthfully, a writer is an observer of the self and others.

I am back. I am excited to work through new happenings and thoughts with you all and to continue to work on balancing self-care while optimizing time and space. Cheers to all the words left to be written.

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Lil Dicky's 'Earth' Is The Most Influential Song Of 2019, Change My Mind

And the music video may be even better.


Lil Dicky is a known musician know for his songs 'Pillow Talking' and 'Freaky Friday' featuring Chris Brown. The songs are fun silly and are very catchy. Last week, Lil Dicky released a new song titled 'Earth' featuring about 30 plus artists including Ariana Grande, Justin Bieber, Brendon Urie, Zac Brown Band, and many others. This song is just as enjoyable as his other songs; however, this one carries an extremely important message.

In this song, Dicky brings awareness to the condition of the Earth along with the idea of world unity. Through the inclusion of several animal species, he shows how the earth doesn't just belong to us as human, but to the animals as well. Oftentimes, the human race can be extremely selfish and forget that we do share the planet with other species who are just as important as us.

In one of his last verses, Dicky mentions the way we are harming the earth through pollution and fighting wars. This part of the song becomes more serious to emphasize the importance of this topic. In the music video, the colorful visuals turn dark and gray which can bring to attending the dying planet.

In his effort to save the earth, Dicky calls for unity among all countries and continents. Saying how all past issues are in the past and we all need to come together since we live on the same planet. With all the political issues happening on a global scale, the earth and its health are often pushed to the end of the priority list. By adding this part to the song, Dicky brings awareness of that topic back to the top.

'Earth' by Lil Dicky is the most important song of 2019. Through his creative artistry and inclusion of over 30 artists, people will notice the message of this song and hopefully begin to make changes that will impact the earth in positive ways. If you haven't watched the music video or listened to the song please do.

Earth is the only planet we have; thus, we need to show how much we love it by actually taking action to care for it.

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My Fairfield University Favorites

I hope that everyone loves the school they are at and are making the best memories. Making the best memories here at Fairfield University consists of….


1. Sham Jam

2. Clam Jam

3. Point Days

4. All Around the World

5. The Beach

6. All my Favorite People in One Place

7. Living in the Townhouses

8. Best Restaurants in Town

9. Donut Inn

10. My Roommates, here and abroad

While there are plenty of other things that attribute to my time here at Fairfield University, these are just 10 that I bet many other Fairfield students would agree with.

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