Social pressures to take the pill

The Birth Control Bandwagon

A health choice or social movement?


This is a very sensitive topic that while writing I choose my words very wisely because this is not an attack on birth control users. This is not talking down on anyone's personal belief or choices. This is not a judgment on any woman or decisions. This is simply an observation addressing the fact that girls and women face pressure from society to be on birth control.

Thinking back to being a teenager, I feel like there was a time that all the sudden every girl was on the pill, around the age of 14 to 16 years old birth control becomes less of a health choice and more of a bandwagon.

As I went through my teenage years I heard a lot of different reasons for birth control and some of them bothered me. Again, it's not my business to tell any person what to do and this is just a personal observation. I have heard more than one girl tell me she started taking the pill because she heard it makes your boobs grow bigger. Unsatisfied with how they are, these girls start taking birth control to alter the appearance of their bodies.

The most disturbing reasoning I've ever been told was that she was on the pill because everyone else is, that it is just something you do once you get to that age. As a young girl, you already face pressure from every direction. What you wear matters. Who you're friends with matters. And apparently, if you take the pill or not matters as well. It worries me that this has been the thought process for girls making a major decision for their bodies.

Don't get me wrong, I fully understand the benefits birth control brings to women who suffer from the wrath of their uterus. I am aware of the non-contraceptive reasons for taking birth control. Some women experience problems with regulating their cycle. A problem that is completely out of their control.

The pill can balance these irregularities. Some women experience excruciating pain with their cycle, and the pill can help decrease the pain they face each month. In these cases, women's lives are put on hold for their cycles and birth control helps give them control back in their life.

As I got older and went to college I often heard the response, "You're NOT on the pill???" Like I've missed out on something major. It has never even been a question for me though. I am not on the pill. Why not? My cycle is regular.

My cramps suck, but they don't keep me from everyday life. I have acne, but I put effort into treating it and taking care of my skin. Those are reason enough for me to decide that birth control medicine isn't something I need to take. Not that it is anyone's business, but in my circumstances, I've never found it necessary.

I really do not intend to be bashing or putting down any woman or their choice to take birth control, and if it seems that way I apologize. This is something I've thought about often, and I feel that it could benefit someone else in my shoes who might feel that social pressure to start the pill.

Nothing and no one should pressure you into making a decision about your body like birth control. I just wish it wouldn't turn into a social movement for young, impressionable teenage girls. I wish it was not so normalized to be on the pill, because I don't really understand the shock I hear in peoples voice when they learn I've never taken birth control.

Every woman is entitled to her personal choice to take the pill or not.

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These Are 4 Proven Ways That Vaccines Cause Autism

Stock up on those essential oils.


Let's just start with the first (and main) point.

1. They don't.

Susan in your anti-vax group is not a scholarly source (despite her hours and hours of Google research).

2. But in case you still believe Susan...

Maybe you'll believe Autism Speaks who says, "Scientists have conducted extensive research over the last two decades to determine whether there is any link between childhood vaccinations and autism. The results of this research is clear: Vaccines do not cause autism."

3. And if Autism Speaks still didn't convince you...

Feel free to take a look at this comprehensive list of studies that all say that there is no relationship between vaccines such as the MMR vaccination and the development of autism.

4. But here's what you should know...

There have been a few studies lately that have shown that autism develops in utero aka before a baby is even born AND before a baby can even receive vaccinations.

Vaccinations have prevented COUNTLESS deaths and illnesses. Vaccination rates are continuing to fall and do you know what that means? Measles will make its way back. Whooping cough will come back. Rubella, mumps, and polio will come back and there will be no way to stop it.

So, now that you know that vaccines do not cause autism, you're welcome to go tell Susan from your anti-vax group that as well as tell her that the Earth isn't flat. But, don't forget to mention it to her that her essential oils and organic foods are not keeping her children safe from the measles or tuberculosis.

Vaccinate your children. And, besides, even IF vaccinations caused autism, wouldn't you rather have a child with a developmental disorder rather than a child who died from the measles?

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An Open Letter To The Middle-Aged, White Men Of Various State Governments Who Think They Own My Body

First off, I would like to express how disappointed I am in all of you.


To the middle-age, white men of various state governments,

First off, I would like to express how disappointed I am in all of you. Do you even know what you are trying to do here?

In recent light, both Ohio, yes this state, and Georgia are trying to ban not only abortions but also birth control and miscarriages. First off, do you even know how to ban a miscarriage? A miscarriage is something a woman cannot control most of the time. From personal experience, my best friend's mom went through three miscarriages, and she didn't want them to happen at all.

Second, I hope it goes through your mind that birth control is not just for preventing pregnancy. I'm on birth control myself, but it is to control horrible cramps I had growing up and to keep my hormones in balance. I know people who have birth control for other medical reasons, like endometriosis and PCOS. Do you know what those are? Please do your research.

This was all written before Wednesday.

As more news comes into the light, especially with today's due date coming up, I'm seeing that even Alabama is trying to ban abortions, and there is no exception with rape. I'm sorry, but this is just all messed up.

If this is the government's way of trying to put us into a better future, they are making the future horrid for women.

This is not becoming the United States of America. This is becoming Gilead.

Yeah, Gilead. Have you read "The Handmaid's Tale"? If not or have not seen the Hulu series, I'll give a summary. Women are stripped of their rights and are put into a position where they have to bear children for powerful people. They don't get a say and are pretty much silenced into submission.

Let me talk about something that I'm pretty sure you've heard in the news already.

There is a girl in my state. Yes, Ohio. She is 11 years old, she was raped, and now she's pregnant. She learned she was six weeks and one day pregnant, and now she can't have an abortion. Why might you ask? Because this stupid Heartbeat Bill is preventing her. Even this new legislation is preventing her. NO ONE AT 11-YEARS-OLD SHOULD BE PREGNANT! THIS WASN'T HER CHOICE! Don't let her live with this and have to go through giving birth.

Oh, wait. She's going to have to because of these things.

So shame on all of the people involved. Shame on the government. Shame on these pro-life people that want to do away with safe abortion. Shame.

To those that are reading this and want to do something, you can. Call your state representative, vote in elections, voice your opinion, anything.

This whole thing not only has me worried for women of the United States, myself, and my future daughter if I have one.

I am in charge of my own body, not the American government and these "men".


A 20-year-old college student, a liberal democrat, a woman who uses birth control, and a fighter.

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