This past weekend I decided it was finally time I cook an actual meal, so I went grocery shopping. I waddled out of the store with four bags on my car willing myself to reach my car before they all fall from my hand. Finally, I made it to the car and began fumbling for my keys. A few cars down, I see an older woman walking towards me. I give her a kind smile, and continue fighting with my keys. After a moment, I hear a voice say "I think you're at the wrong car". I look up to see the old lady, staring at me intently. Though her presence made me wary, I smiled and checked inside to make sure I was actually at my car. I see my bag, my lab coat, other groceries. This is definitely my vehicle. I turn back to the lady, and respond "No, this is my car, just trying to get the key!" Thinking the conversation is over, I begin to slide my key into my car door, but I see the lady is still staring me down. Now, I am becoming even more uncomfortable because a stranger is...watching me. I turned back towards her and asked, "is there something wrong", and she said something I thought I would never hear in my life. Her response, "just making sure your not stealing it". Instantly, my blood began to boil. How dare this women assume I am stealing my own vehicle, why because it's a nice car? And that is exactly what I said to her. I asked her to politely walk away before I get too angry to control myself because my mother has worked too hard to ensure I have a dependable vehicle, and i know the sacrifices she made. This women attempted to criminalize me and belittle me because in her opinion, I was too black to be able to afford my car. Too black to be successful. This is what it is like to be Black in America right now.
LifestyleJul 23, 2019
Being Black in America
In an instant, it is easier to assume that I am attempting to steal a car, rather than entering my own vehicle. The only explanation? My skin color.
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