B***h can be defined as: a female dog, a malicious, unpleasant, selfish person, especially a woman, a lewd woman or any woman. But you know what being a b***h really is? Being a “b***h” should mean being an aggressive, assertive, independent woman who knows what she wants and will not let anyone or anything stand in her way of getting it.
Listen up women: stop saying, “I’m sorry.” Stop apologizing for being in the way, interrupting conversations, and when you need someone’s help. With ads like Pantene’s Not Sorry and Always’ Like A Girl, the message is spreading that women need to be strong and assert themselves as women, because there isn’t a damn thing wrong with that.
If men can just as easily use their assertiveness to get what they want and no one talks about it, then why can’t we? A woman CEO of a fortune 500 company can run it just as commendable as a man; look at Mary Barra (General Motors) or Indra Nooyi (Pepsi Co).
Great b***hes like Miranda Priestly, Blair Waldorf and Samantha Jones show us that being exactly who you want to be is a great thing. You want to run a high end, fashion magazine? Do it. You want to be the queen bee of upper East side Manhattan? Do it. You want to love yourself more than you could ever love a man? You go for it.
The meaning of b***h needs to change. Being a b***h is a fantastic thing. You show people you are a strong woman who can get to where you need to go all on your own, man or no man. Women need to stop being scared to go after what they want because anything is attainable.
Channel your inner-b***hiness: don’t take no for an answer, don’t step down because you’re scared and never, ever let someone make you feel less than you are. Be honest, be confident and never hold back.