Have you ever felt like a back seat driver?

Not literally, like in an actual car, but in your life.

I am one of those people who has always had a handle on her life but for some reason, I feel like I am standing in the back of the crowd watching someone else's life being played out. Yes, I am proud of that person's life, but the closer I look the more I realized that that is my life.

So what do you do when you feel like everything is moving passed you in a whirlwind?

Well, start by stepping back.

Look at the world you are in and take a deep breath. I have always been the one to say, "just in and get what you want," but this is why time I would say to feel the water first because this water is going to be cold. But I can promise you that it will get better.

After you have laid everything on the table and really come to terms that this is your life, now is the time to put on your big boy/ girl pants and take the dive.

A good way is to start small. You don't have to take on huge projects right now, just remember to start with the little things and then add until you feel you are in a safe area.

Life is hard and I won't be the one to tell you it's not, but I will tell you that this life doesn't have to be the worse. You can have happiness, success, and a level head when you truly stop and take this world in for what it is, temporary.