You know, as you get older, you get cooler.

You were the first baby sister I had, and I have to admit: you were incredibly annoying growing up. You're nine years younger than me, but we argued all the time. I think it's because we're so similar. We are strong, stubborn, set in our ways, and we both have a burning need to be right in every argument. Believe it or not, but those qualities will serve you well in the future.

You've grown up to be quite the character. I'd say a young lady, but if you're anything like me (which you totally are), you don't have the time to be a lady. And I don't mean that in a bad way, sissy. I just mean that you don't fit the traditional definition of a lady. Quiet, meek, and humble is just not you. You make your opinions heard. You are brave and not afraid to be proud of all your achievements. And you've achieved so much by 11. You are smart, much smarter than I was at your age. And you're an incredible dancer. I'm jealous, to be honest. I am so proud of everything you've done so far.

Know that I'll always be here for you, Lale. We might still argue from time to time, but you get cooler every day. I think that's because you're growing into the person you're supposed to be. Every day and every year you're getting more sure of yourself.

You've still got time, though. You've got all the time in the world to figure out who you are and change your mind. And know that I'll be here for every step and every phase.

Eleven is a big year, sissy. You're in middle school! This much closer to high school and college and the rest of your life. I've got a bit of advice for you, although you might not choose to listen to it. First, stick to your ideals. Do what you think is right, and don't let anyone convince you otherwise.

Talk more! You're cool, I promise, and everyone should want to be friends with you. You and I are the same in that we get so nervous when trying to make friends. Believe me when I say it doesn't get any easier at age 20 than it is at age 11.

Discover what you're passionate about and let it carry you through tough times. You've got so much love in that little heart of yours that you need to find somewhere to pour it out.

I hope you have the best day today, Valentina. Enjoy the presents and cake and all the growing up you've got waiting for you. You are one of my best friends, and I'm so lucky to have you.

Happy Birthday!

Love,

"Banoona"