The answer has more to do with lifestyle than a snapshot in a series of semi-decent photos taken in quick succession in the hopes of retaining one.
I embrace my generation with all its aptitudes and evils because we can choose to utilize one of the most powerful tools for good and the betterment of society.
Social media, however can also be used in a profoundly negative manner. With social media we can absolutely shred someone’s already shaky vision of who they are. Not cyber bullying but a more subtle and accidentally inherent form of both peer pressure and persuasion.
If someone travels, we’re jealous of his or her experience. We pine for adventure and the views over their shoulder.
If someone is “healthier” or in better shape than you—we don’t see as inspiration or resolution but as judgment on the state of who we are as an individual.
If someone posts his or her opinion, we often return a verdict of our disapproval rather than allowing for differing views to incite us to reflect.
Dangerous but so delightfully useful, social media is at heart a neutral tool.
With social media, we can inspire others to embrace a healthy lifestyle. We can encourage others with our stories to step out of the space where they are most comfortable. Or conversely, embolden them to remain impassioned where they are currently.
Why don’t we build one another up instead of focusing on Instagramming another perfectly placed Starbucks perspiring with condensation in your tanned hand on a beach somewhere.
Also, maybe take a week away from whatever form of social media you enjoy (distracts you) the most. You might find that focusing on what’s directly in front of you instead of what’s on your screen will be more fulfilling. And speaking of Starbucks, my friend showed me a quote she saw in one today. It reads, “the time was now.” So with that, stop worrying about pictures and go experience all the things present in your life today.
