To Those Who Don't Take Their Own Advice

To Those Who Don't Take Their Own Advice

People run to you for your excellent advice, so start running to yourself for some, too!

Dear Friends Who Never Listen To Themselves,

You are the person someone comes to when in crisis, whether it is family problems or a post argument with a significant other. They come to you for your thoughts and hopefully the answers to all their problems. That's the thing though. It's the answer to their problems. When you are in full on crisis mode, you do the complete opposite of what you have told others. This is a classic case of not taking your own advice.

After careful consideration, you decide to do all the wrong things and wonder why nothing is working out in your favor, but your friends lives are going smoothly. What is wrong with this picture? The answer lies within you. You need to start keeping in mind what you are saying when giving others advice, for when you might be in the same situation.

It's a funny feeling realizing when you didn't take your own advice. Like when you tell your best friend to dump that guy because he doesn't treat her like the beautiful human being she is, yet you stay with the same guy who refuses to get a job and tells you that you should lose some weight. Whoever you are, whether you are the person who runs for advice or gives out advice like free candy, always remember to listen to your own advice! It could be as simple as don't take your phone in the bathroom with you or to remember that you don't need anyone to make you happy. Just always remember these things in the back of your mind when you are looking for the same kind of advisement.

I know anyone who is guilty of not taking their own advice, knows that they are doing it. I am very aware of the fact that I do it, and with time we will all learn to help ourselves, while we help others. Good luck with listening to yourself, you'll be glad you did.


A Girl Who Does The Opposite Of What She Should Do

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17 Empowering Bible Verses For Women

You go, girl.

We all have those days where we let the negative thoughts that we're "not good enough," "not pretty enough" or "not smart enough" invade our minds. It's easy to lose hope in these situations and to feel like it would be easier to just give up. However, the Bible reminds us that these things that we tell ourselves are not true and it gives us the affirmations that we need. Let these verses give you the power and motivation that you're lacking.

1. Proverbs 31:25

"She is clothed with strength and dignity and she laughs without fear of the future."

2. Psalm 46:5

"God is within her, she will not fall."

3. Luke 1:45

"Blessed is she who believed that the Lord would fulfill His promises to her."

4. Proverbs 31:17

"She is energetic and strong, a hard worker."

5. Psalm 28:7

"The Lord is my strength and my shield."

6. Proverbs 11:16

"A gracious woman gains respect, but ruthless men gain only wealth."

7. Joshua 1:9

"Be strong and courageous! Do not be afraid or discouraged. For the Lord your God is with you wherever you go."

8. Proverbs 31:30

"Charm is deceptive, and beauty does not last; but a woman who fears the Lord will be greatly praised."

9. 1 Corinthians 15:10

"By the grace of God, I am what I am."

10. Proverbs 31:26

"When she speaks, her words are wise, and she gives instructions with kindness."

11. Psalm 139:14

"I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made."

12. 1 Peter 3:3-4

"Don't be concerned about the outward beauty of fancy hairstyles, expensive jewelry, or beautiful clothes. You should clothe yourselves instead with the beauty that comes from within, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is so precious to God."

13. Colossians 2:10

"And in Christ you have been brought to fullness."

14. 2 Timothy 1:7

"For God has not given us a spirit of fear and timidity, but of power, love, and self-discipline."

15. Jeremiah 29:11

"'For I know the plans I have for you,' says the Lord. 'They are plans for good and not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope.'"

16. Exodus 14:14

"The Lord himself will fight for you. Just stay calm."

17. Song of Songs 4:7

"You are altogether beautiful, my darling, beautiful in every way."

Next time you're feeling discouraged or weak, come back to these verses and use them to give you the strength and power that you need to conquer your battles.

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Whether it's riding your bike around a local lake or getting some sun at the pool, being outside is sure to brighten your mood. Spending all day looking at social media and seeing people at the beach or skiing will only put you in a funk. Appreciate the place you in and learn to have fun with the company you have instead of the Instagram picture potential of the place you're in.

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