To The Person Who Puts Up Christmas Decorations BEFORE Thanksgiving

To The Person Who Puts Up Christmas Decorations BEFORE Thanksgiving


You know who you are.

You’re the person who goes HARD for Halloween and then the second the calendar changes over to November 1st, you already have your stockings hung, your tree decorated and you’ve already attended four tacky Christmas sweater parties and participated in a Secret Santa swap.

You can’t hide either; the scent of peppermint and gingerbread follows you wherever you go and we can hear you singing "All I Want For Christmas Is You" from miles away. You’re the reason Thanksgiving, a holiday brought to us by the friendship of the brave Mayflower pilgrims and Native Americans, a holiday dedicated to eating copious amounts of food, is overlooked for the commercialization and obsession for Christmas.

Now don’t get me wrong, I love Christmas! It’s easily my favorite holiday! I’m just one of those people that like to celebrate and acknowledge holidays in chronological order. It’s super annoying that even before Halloween, I was seeing Christmas decorations and commercials. This begs the question: why even celebrate Halloween and Thanksgiving if people are going to start listening to Christmas carols in October/November? Also, don’t you people get tired of celebrating Christmas for three months?

Just hear me out...Thanksgiving is a great holiday and it needs the respect it deserves. On what other day of the year is it appropriate to stuff your face with food? Sure, the relatives can get a bit irritating but at least you get endless pie and turkey out of it! Also, we get the Macy Thanksgiving Day Parade and Turkey Trots and "A Charlie Brown Thanksgiving"! And the next day is Black Friday! Think of it this way: you can start celebrating Christmas on Black Friday because that’s when I get the majority of my Christmas shopping done. (#ThoseDealsThough.)

This year, I challenge all of you who celebrate Christmas before Thanksgiving to just not. Take in the Thanksgiving holiday. As cliche as it sounds, it’s a good time to really be thankful for what you have and who you surround yourself with and to reflect on your blessings. I challenge you to maybe volunteer at a soup kitchen for Thanksgiving and just see how grateful some people are to get canned vegetables and cheap turkey. Christmas is just as important, but it can wait. You’ll be surprised at the people and their outlook on life and how grateful they are to get a hot meal on Thanksgiving Day.

So, celebrate Thanksgiving before Christmas. It’s only one more month until endless jingle bells, red cups and presents. As annoying as your second aunt twice removed may be, just suck it up and grin and bear it when she asks about your 10-year plan, if you’re getting married anytime soon and what you’re planning on doing with your degree. It’s one day a year, you can do it and at least you get a rockin’ dinner out of it.

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13 Summer Struggles Only Thick Girls Understand

Chafing. So much chafing.


Summer is a lovely time. A time of cookouts, swimming, and sunny weather. But if you're a " thick girl," summer sometimes brings more unpleasantries than it does for slimmer women. No matter how beautiful and confident you are in your body, it can bring some struggles.

1. The living hell that is shorts-shopping

Step 1: Find the biggest size the store has.

Step 2: (If you can even get those on): Realize your stomach is being squeezed into the top, your butt is falling out of the back and your thighs are having the life squished out of them.

Step 3: Realize why winter isn't so bad.

2. And dealing with them even after finding a pair that "fits"

Nothing like taking a pair of shorts home you remember fitting you okay in the store and then walking for 45 seconds and pulling them out of your butt or crotch 17 times. Truly a magical experience.

3. And every bathing suit you try on shows more skin than you'd planned

Even the most conservative bathing suit turns into cleavage-city and a non-cheeky set of bottoms turns into a thong. I promise, older people glaring at me in my sexual bathing suit, I didn't mean for this to happen!

4. Chafing. So much chafing.

No better feeling than four minutes into wearing short shorts realizing that your inner thighs are literally tearing themselves apart. Body Glide and baby powder are a thick girl's No. 1 necessity.

5. Loving rompers. Rompers not loving you.

Rompers are made with short and skinny girls in mind. Heaven forbid you're not short, and heaven forbid you're not skinny. Rompers are like a mystical article of clothing that, no matter what, always just barely doesn't fit.

6. Imagining wearing a sundress with a strapless bra and just laughing

Of course, not all thick girls are well-endowed in the boob department, but if you are, you understand how hilarious the thought of you wearing a strapless bra truly is.

7. And bralettes are a thing of fantasy

Once again, bralettes are designed for a very specific body type. One that I do not fall into.

8. Feeling like you need to constantly defend yourself for dressing like you want to

There are so many posts and tweets and just general ideals that people have that certain sized women can't wear certain clothing. You shouldn't feel the need to defend yourself for wearing a cute crop top or a bikini, but you will.

9. And always feeling looked at when you're rocking your swimsuit

Yes, I see your judging eyes, and yes, they are making me feel like shit. It doesn't matter how confident you are in your body, people looking at you like you just killed somebody just because you're wearing something typically made for smaller women doesn't make you feel good.

10. Did I mention chafing?

I just felt like something so horrible couldn't just be mentioned once.

11. Online shopping for cute summer outfits and then none of them fitting you correctly

There's always the dreaded "one-size-fits-all" for plus-size women. As if there's just one way to be plus-size. No matter how much they promise online that it'll fit well, it won't.

12. Seeing tiny girls complaining about losing their "summer bodies"

So many tweets talking about choosing food over a summer body. So many profile pictures of traditionally skinny women. I'm not saying that thick girls are the only ones who can complain about their summer bodies, and thick girls do not have a monopoly one not feeling confident in their bodies. But it is hard to see those posts knowing that those women would be glorified in their swimwear while you'd be gawked at.

13. The "you go girl!" comments on your oh-so-brave bikini photos

Compliments are nice, and positive comments while wearing a bikini go a long way. But the dreaded "you go girl" comment just seems so condescending. Just treat me like anyone else you'd see wearing a bikini. I promise, I'd like to feel like that.

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To The Stressed Out College Student, Be Optimistic For Spring Quarter

I am looking forward to a productive spring quarter.


As a strenuous ten weeks of winter quarter is finally coming to a close, there is no better feeling than to be rewarded with a week of spring break. For most colleges and universities, this period of time is one of excitement and relief, as students approach a summer vacation that begins in May. Yet, for students with schedules revolving around the lovable (and often hatable) quarter system, it feels as though summer is far from our reach.

On a personal note, my previous ten weeks of classes have been bearable at best. I can proudly say that I have been counting down the days until spring break since our winter quarter began in January, though now that the week is finally approaching, I am reminded by the fact that I have yet another ten weeks of school in the near future. Interestingly enough, I have not started the countdown to June 18th quite yet. Instead, I am looking forward to a productive spring quarter that will leave me feeling energized and accomplished as I enter into a fresh summer.

I believe that the spring quarter withholds a sense of refreshment and newfound energy in comparison to that of fall and winter. Though students on the quarter system will end classes later than others, there is something to be said for spending days on campus when the warm weather finally breaks. Time seems to pass faster than it did in the dark and ominous weeks of winter quarter, and everyone seems to have a more positive attitude - as we can all see that vacation is approaching.

To the stressed out college student, be optimistic for spring quarter. Though tests and finals will still be ever-present, the completion of another ten weeks of classes is excellent motivation to achieve success and reward yourself within the coming months.

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