To The Girls Battling Negative Body Image With Summer On The Horizon

To The Girls Battling Negative Body Image With Summer On The Horizon

Summer is an obstacle, but I promise we will get through it.

As Summer approaches...

The temperature is increasing, and the amount of clothing being worn is decreasing.

To the people who battle with negative body image,

The idea of having to wear less clothing in order to avoid having a heat stroke can be anxiety-ridding and dreadful.

It can be instinctive to want to wear full length pants and shirts because we want to hide our bodies that we are self-conscious of; even if that means suffering through the heat of summer.

Spending time in a swimsuit as a "fun" activity can be more like a hellish chore.

Many of us probably wish we could stay inside and let the heat pass-by until it's Fall again when being covered up head-to-toe becomes the norm.

I'm not naive enough to try and preach, "Just be comfortable in your own skin" or "Stop comparing yourself to other people" because I know that is much easier said than done.

What I will say is...

Remember you are enough and beautiful just as you already are– even if you don't believe it.

Remember that no matter what physical goals you may or may not have for yourself, we are all works in progress, and it's important to appreciate ourselves every step of the way.

Remind yourself that you are dressing for yourself, not anyone else.

I know it's hell constantly worrying about what your body looks like in the eyes of others.

And I know constantly checking your reflection in mirrors that you pass-by to get a glimpse of what your side-profile looks like or looking down to see how much your thighs move as you walk are habits that are hard to break.

But remember...

It's normal for our bodies to move as we walk.

It's normal for our bodies to have cellulite, stretch marks, and imperfections.

Take each summer day one day at a time.

Wear whatever you feel happy and comfortable in.

Go on a shopping spree and buy clothing that you feel flatter your body shape and compliment your personality.

Most people you will interact with won't actually be judging you for how your body looks– and if they do, they have a much bigger issue–an ugly personality.

Social media consists of edited, filtered, and perfectly posed pictures that only display unrealistic realities and are glimpses of what people want us to see.

Confidence is what radiates and is what attracts people.

Remind yourself of your attributions that make you who you are and things you value about yourself that have nothing to do with your appearance.

Summer is going to be hard for us– you can't just wish body image issues away, overcoming and seeing past them is hard work.

However, use the summertime as a chance to do whatever you need to do to feel more comfortable and happy with yourself.

Please don't spend the summer hoping, wishing, and beating yourself up because you wish you could look like or be someone else.

Break down if you need to, but don't skip out on the ice cream runs, vacations, pool days, and other adventures because of insecurities, I promise you will regret doing so.

Summer is an obstacle, but I promise we will get through it.

With love,

A Girl Who Struggles Too

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50 Things To Be Happy About

It's the little things in life.

It is always easier to pick out the negatives in life. We tend to dwell on them and drown out the happy moments. I asked a friend to tell me something that made them happy. They sarcastically laughed at my question then thought about it for a minute. Nothing. But they could easily come up with things that made them unhappy. Then I read them my list, and they were smiling and laughing in agreement the whole time. There are so many more things to be happy and laugh about than we realize. After all- it's the little things in life that can mean the most! Here are 50 things that make me happy. What are your 50?

  1. The first warm day of the year
  2. Laughing so hard your abs ache
  3. Freshly washed sheets
  4. Looking through old pictures
  5. The smell of a coffee shop
  6. Eating cookie dough
  7. Reading a bible verse that perfectly fits your current situation
  8. Seeing someone open a gift you got them
  9. Eating birthday cake
  10. A shower after a long day
  11. Marking something off your to-do list
  12. Drinking ice cold water on a really hot day
  13. Dressing up for no reason
  14. Breakfast food
  15. Being able to lay in bed in the morning
  16. Finding something you love at the store
  17. And it’s on sale
  18. Cute elderly couples
  19. When a stranger compliments you
  20. Getting butterflies in your stomach
  21. Taking a nap
  22. Cooking something delicious
  23. Being lost for words
  24. Receiving a birthday card in the mail
  25. And there's money in it
  26. Finally cleaning your room
  27. Realizing how fortunate you are
  28. Waking up from a nightmare and realizing it wasn't real
  29. Fresh fruit
  30. Walking barefoot in the grass
  31. Singing along to a song in the car
  32. Sunrises
  33. Sunsets
  34. Freshly baked cookies with a glass of milk
  35. Summertime cookouts
  36. Feeling pretty
  37. Looking forward to something
  38. Lemonade
  39. Comfortable silences
  40. Waking up in the middle of the night and realizing you have more time to sleep
  41. Surviving another school year
  42. The cold side of the pillow
  43. The smell of popcorn
  44. Remembering something funny that happened
  45. Laughing to yourself about it
  46. Feeling weird about laughing to yourself
  47. Printed photographs
  48. Wearing a new outfit
  49. The sound of an ice cream truck
  50. Feeling confident
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The Truth About Narcan, Insulin, And Who Pays For What

"Stupid junkies, I have to pay for my Insulin but they get Narcan FOR FREE. Can you believe that?"



Let's talk about it. Naloxone, commonly referred to as Narcan or Evzio is a "medication designed to rapidly reverse opioid overdose." According to the National Institute on Drug Abuse, Naloxone basically reverses the effects of an overdose.

As you see on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, and every other social media platform in the world, "junkies" get indirectly bashed, undermined, and in a nutshell, told that they don't deserve a place on earth.

The most common argument used by "non-addicts" is "I have to pay for my Insulin for my diabetes, but they get Narcan for free? Wow, our government sucks and the system is a joke."

For those of you that don't know, diabetes is a disease in which the body's ability to produce or respond to the hormone, insulin, is impaired, resulting in abnormal metabolism of carbohydrates and elevated levels of glucose in the blood and urine.

There are two types of this disease: Type 1 Diabetes and Type 2 Diabetes that result from a variety of different factors. Diabetes can be acquired through genetics but can also be personally obtained through lifestyle, depending on the type. Aside from genetics and being born into a diabetic family, you may also be diagnosed with diabetes as a result of physical inactivity, high blood pressure, abnormal cholesterol, and being overweight. In other words, if you let your body go, don't work out or do some type of physical activity, let your high blood pressure go untreated, and eat unhealthy foods; you have a chance of developing diabetes.

Next, let's talk about prices.

On average, Insulin costs $200 monthly. This depends on the brand, personal insurance, coupons, and other factors such as organizations that help people get cheaper insulin.

Narcan nasal spray costs $130 for a two-time use. You can buy it at CVS Pharmacy (and other pharmacies) in states such as Ohio, Arkansas, California, Minnesota, Mississippi, Montana, New Jersey, North Dakota, Pennsylvania, South Carolina, Tennessee, Utah, and Wisconsin. Some of these states may require a prescription.

Now that you know that Narcan/Evzio isn't free, it's time to talk about other charges that are brought upon addicts when they overdose. If an ambulance is called, they have to pay for it. If they are sent to the emergency room, they also have to pay for that.

The idea that "junkies" get Narcan for free is something society has made up to make drug users feel even more guilt than they already do from having an addiction alone.

Believe it or not, most of us are addicted to something that can be fatal or cause illness/injury. If you eat processed foods or sugar ridden foods every day, chances are you have an addiction to sugar. The withdrawal that someone has from quitting sugar is similar to the withdrawal that one goes through from quitting heroin. You get a splitting headache, you have cold sweats, you are moody, and it makes you sick. If you drink coffee all day on most days and you try to quit, it results in an awful headache for a few days. The addiction to cigarettes and the withdrawal that people go through for that speaks for itself; we all know a smoker or an ex-smoker.

Instead of following social norms, degrading drug users and putting ourselves on a pedestal because we don't use heroin or another "hard drug," we should advocate for the health and stand up for each other. If you see someone on the street that you know is a drug user, pull them aside and pray with them. Help them find a better life. Recommend church, rehab, or any other ideas that may be at your fingertips to mention.

The moral of the story is this: we all have an addiction, hypocrisy is at it's finest thanks to social media, and we are all human. Walk a mile in someone else's shoes before you judge them. It doesn't cost a dime to shed light on someone's life, especially when they are in need.

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