An Open Letter To The Guy Who Gave Me My First Kiss
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An Open Letter To The Guy Who Gave Me My First Kiss

You were my first "real" and official boyfriend, but sometimes things just don't work out.

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An Open Letter To The Guy Who Gave Me My First Kiss
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Dear ex,

It's been a little more than a year since we broke up and I haven't heard from you in a while. How have you been? Not that I think about you a lot, which I don't, but I just wanted to see how you were doing. I am doing really well and that's without you as well. I didn't think I was going to make it without you but I did. I hope you know that you made me realize I deserve better.

We met when I was at my friend's house (ex-friend now) and all three of us hung out together that day. It was really fun and I thought you were cute. Apparently, you thought I was cute too. We started talking when my friend gave you my number, and we went on a date or two before we became a couple. We went on so many awesome dates and I was really happy with you.

Eventually, you started to think about us and how it felt like we were rushing things. You decided to call "us" off. I was really upset and I hoped you would feel bad. You did and we got back together but we broke up two weeks later again. I started to question myself like "why am I not good enough?" You told me that I wanted a relationship like the ones you see in movies. That was so hurtful and I was shocked that someone like you would say that to me. We cut off each other and now we're here...

I'm single right now because I'm waiting for someone who will show me that I deserve the world and more. You have found someone that you actually love and you give the world to her. I'm really happy for you. Y'all have been together way longer than we have and that's good. You finally found a girl that will stick with you (not being rude but it's true). I commend you for staying in a relationship for more than two weeks.

I do not have you in my life anymore nor do I want you in it. I have found peace without you and I hope you know that I did like you and I wasn't playing games. I actually did have a lot of feelings for you and you did have feelings for me at one time. How the feelings went away that quickly, I will never know, but I guess it's not important anymore. I can tell that you are happy without me and that's perfectly fine with me.

I don't know if you are reading this or not, but I just had to write this open letter to address something to you. You were my first kiss and first "real" boyfriend and it was great while it lasted. I hope you don't have any bitter feelings towards me because I don't have any towards you. I forgive you for upsetting me and giving me my first heartbreak. I will never forget the good times we had and I'm so glad we both moved on.

Sincerely,

The girl that you used to like ♥

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