Dear Girl that is unsure if her man is right,

You deserve to be treated like the princess you are and if your man isn't living up to the standard that you deserve, or he's selfish, then you need to tell him bye. You deserve the sweet texts, and the phone calls just because he knows you're upset. You deserve the apologies after the fight you had if your man was wrong. You are worth his time. If he isn't giving it to you and you are the one constantly making the effort to keep your relationship together then he's not worth it.

If you are thinking about being with other men, then this is probably a good sign that your guy isn't the right fit for you. You want to be with other people which mean you are unhappy, or there are issues with your relationship and you desire to be with someone else even if you love the guy you're with.

There's a difference between loving the person you are with, and being in love with them. If you are happier when you are away from your partner than you are when you're with them then you have an issue. Now, I'm not saying go dump your guy just because you went out on the town with some friends and had a blast, but if you are noticing that you get into a bad mood when he comes around or you have a better time and less stress is put on you when he's not around then this is a pretty good sign you aren't happy in your relationship.

If he's selfish and doesn't think about your feelings and is inconsiderate, then it's probably time to move on. This applies to every thing about your relationship. If you and your man get into a fight, and he knows he is in the wrong for whatever it may be, and he tries to blame you for the situation or tell you that you are being "psycho", he is being inconsiderate about how you might actually be feeling. Instead of calling you crazy and brushing it off, he needs to try to understand your side of the issue and work with you to figure it out.

When your man is constantly putting his own needs and desires above your own, cut him loose. Despite what society has trained us to think, our sexual preferences and wants are just as important as theirs, and any guy that is too caught up in their own need to try to fulfill yours isn't worth keeping around anyway.

If you're the only one putting in the effort to make the relationship work, then chances are nothing is going to change and you're the only one who wants to make things work. It takes two people to make a relationship work and if the effort is only coming from one side, it's not going to work out no matter how hard you try. You will eventually become unhappy and stressed out because for so long you tried to force something that just isn't happening.

If you just don't see a future with who you're with, it's probably time. if you're still in high school or early 20s, this probably doesn't apply to you, but if you're ready to settle down with someone, then this does apply to you. If you and your partner have completely opposite view on different topics and you can't see yourself with them in 20 years then there's no point in continuing something that is probably going to end anyway.