To the preservation of energies:
There's something with how energies can affect your overall mood. Moreover, when positive energies come from people who are close to you, it can help maintain your vibes.
What happens when you're surrounded by negative energies?
I always make sure my readers know that I do not consider myself an expert in anything that I write about. However, I can attest to what it feels like having people around you that bring down your attitude.
In my experience, it's more than just your mood being affected: it's all of the motivation you need to get everything accomplished that you want to get done.
Imagine the current goal you have right now and how important it is to you. Then, take that goal and all that you feel for it into consideration. A person whose energies are negative will potentially take you farther and farther away from having that same desire to achieve it. Why? It's because they haven't spent time working on flourishing their own healthy energies, so there's no urgency in their world to worry about yours.
This could happen constantly or whenever you're around such attitudes.
My point is: it can be draining.
I'm not trying to discourage anyone from confiding in their dreams with the ones that you feel closest to, but what I am saying is that you should never allow your energies to be bogged down with negativity. There should never be a time when you feel so overwhelmed with what everyone else wants or says, that you decide to give up on things you want or enjoy.
While I want people to have strong bonds, there can be no good to come from it if some of the bond is weakened by one person's unwillingness to see what is important in their loved one's life.
Keep in mind: no one will change their energy if they don't want or try to.
Everyone has a breaking point. You're no exception to that rule. You're human and deserve to at least expect something like positive energies to move and maintain you forward.
What you choose to do and how you choose to handle the unhealthy energies is completely up to you, and I am in no way trying to or interested in telling others how they can declutter their emotional space.
But please understand that however you choose to do so, I encourage you to do it with care and the positive energies you've cultivated. Spread positivity and not the negativity clouding your emotional domain.
Cheers,
Jessica