American Is Waging A War On Women's Reproductive Care And It Needs To Stop

American Is Waging A War On Women's Reproductive Care And It Needs To Stop

Kim Reynolds, we are going to give you one hell of a fight.

I am pro-choice. I don't think the words should ever be confused when I say this. People who are pro-choice are exactly what they declare to be. We are pro-decision. We think that the choices a woman makes with her body are to be supported and praised for the bravery that they are. Pro-choice and pro-decision. We trust women to make the decisions to birth or to not, to take contraceptives or to not. And up until recently, I really believed that the government was behind such decisions. Banning abortion is unconstitutional and banned under federal law, however, states have been finding loopholes for decades now and in these times we are facing some of the worst attacks on reproductive care and hoop jumping that we have ever faced as a country.

Iowa just recently passed a law practically banning abortion.

This has been marketed and advertised on social media in a way that I am sure the governor deems as cute and the wordplay surrounding this oppressive bill is one that has been exceedingly strategically chosen. The bill has been called the "Heartbeat Bill" and many people across the country are deeming this a "success for pro-lifers" government-funded organizations such as Planned Parenthood have already called this bill out for being exactly what it is, which is unconstitutional. If America refuses to take away the right to bear arms, it should in no way take away a women's right to choose as both are protected the under the constitution.

In the Heartbeat Bill, Iowa has made the decision to ban any abortion after six weeks. In this amount of time, many women are not even aware that they are pregnant. This legislature is one of the most massive jump backs in time we have witnessed as American citizens in an incredibly long time. This bill is a spit in the face to our government and federal law, it has proved that even when women have slaved away for their rights, they can still be snatched away by a tyrant in power. It has proved no matter how much social progress we work on making as a unit, massive step backs in time are always possible and often occur at the greedy hands of just one person.

Banning abortion is illegal but, somehow, Iowa has managed to do. There is an exceedingly slim chance you will even be aware you are pregnant in the first six weeks of pregnancy and now Iowa state law will force you to bear that child against your will. We are living in an era that deeply desires to jump back in time, to take steps backward instead of progressing forward. It is terrifying and I know that now more than ever is the time to come forward and to speak up.

The governor has made statements saying that she realizes this is unconstitutional, but it is something that she is passionate about. She is not really pro-life as she has made statements being against gun control as well as desiring to kick immigrants desiring a better life out of this country.

In reality, the term "pro-life" is not really about being pro-life at all, but rather anti-choice.

Pro-life to the little cell inside a woman, but not to the Syrian immigrants or teenagers being gunned down at school. Pro-birth, but perfectly fine with the infant being put into the bitter corruption of the neglected foster care system where drugs and molestation are at an all-time high, finally being exposed in the Me Too era.

I am what I say I am and what most decent Americans define as pro-choice. We do not use the term pro-abortion because we are for the choice, the choice for a woman to choose what is best for her and for her life. Pro-life is a gimmicky agenda that right uses to funnel in votes. She stood at the bill with babies, behind her, all an electorate ploy to tug at heartstrings and a rapid attempt to silence her tens of thousands of protesters. I see right through the tricks and gimmicks, Kim Reynolds, and we are about to give you one hell of a fight.

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PSA: Keep Your Body-Negative Opinions Away From Little Girls This Summer

But our own baggage shouldn't be shoved on to those we surround ourselves with.


It's officially swimsuit season, y'all.

The temperature is rising, the sun is bright and shining, and a trip to the beach couldn't look more appealing than it does right now. This is the time of year that many of us have been rather impatiently waiting for. It's also the time of year that a lot of us feel our most self-conscious.

I could take the time to remind you that every body is a bikini body. I could type out how everyone is stunning in their own unique way and that no one should feel the need to conform to a certain standard of beauty to feel beautiful, male or female. I could sit here and tell you that the measurement of your waistline is not a reflection of your worth. I completely believe every single one of these things.

Hell, I've shared these exact thoughts more times than I can count. This time around, however, I'm not going to say all these things. Instead, I'm begging you to push your insecurities to the side and fake some confidence in yourself when you're in front of others.


Because our negative self-image is toxic and contagious and we're spreading this negative thinking on to others.

We're all guilty of this, we're with family or a friend and we make a nasty comment about some aspect of our appearance, not even giving a single thought to the impact our words have on the person with us. You might think that it shouldn't bother them- after all, we're not saying anything bad about them! We're just expressing our feelings about something we dislike about ourselves. While I agree that having conversations about our insecurities and feelings are important for our mental and emotional health, there is a proper and improper way of doing it. An open conversation can leave room for growth, acceptance, understanding, and healing. Making a rude or disheartening remark about yourself is destructive not only to yourself, but it will make the person you are saying these things around question their own self worth or body image by comparing themselves to you.

My little sister thinks she's "fat." She doesn't like how she looks. To use her own words, she thinks she's "too chubby" and that she "looks bad in everything."

She's 12 years old.

Do you want to know why she has this mindset? As her older sister, I failed in leading her by example. There were plenty of times when I was slightly younger, less sure of myself, and far more self-conscious than I am now, that I would look in the mirror and say that I looked too chubby, that my body didn't look good enough, that I wished I could change the size of my legs or stomach.

My little sister had to see the older sibling she looks up to, the big sis she thinks always looks beautiful, say awful and untrue things about herself because her own sense of body image was warped by media, puberty, and comparing herself to others.

My negativity rubbed off onto her and shaped how she looks at herself. I can just imagine her watching me fret over how I look thinking, "If she thinks she's too big, what does that make me?"

It makes me feel sick.

All of us are dealing with our own insecurities. It takes some of us longer than others to view ourselves in a positive, loving light. We're all working on ourselves every day, whether it be mentally, physically, or emotionally. But our own baggage shouldn't be shoved on to those we surround ourselves with, our struggles and insecurities should not form into their own burdens.

Work on yourself in private. Speak kindly of yourself in front of others. Let your positivity, real or not, spread to others instead of the bad feelings we have a bad habit of letting loose.

The little girls of the world don't need your or my negative self-image this summer. Another kid doesn't need to feel worthless because we couldn't be a little more loving to ourselves and a lot more conscious of what we say out loud.

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8 Reasons You Should Focus On Social Media Marketing

The social media wave isn't ending anytime soon. And your business should take advantage of it if you want it to survive.


If you're a business owner, chances are you've already considered using social media marketing to help get the word out about your business.

In fact, 82 percent of small business owners are using sites like Facebook, Twitter, LinkedIn, Pinterest, and Instagram to help grow their businesses. And if you are still standing on the social sidelines, there's never been a better time to get started.

Here are 10 reasons why social media marketing could be right for your business.

1. Social media helps get the word out

First and foremost — social media does, in fact, help get the word out about your business.

But even more important than the exposure, it provides you with the opportunity to grow relationships with your target audience. Your fans, followers, and connections are people who know your organization, have likely done business with you in the past, and will be most likely tell their friends about you.

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2. Social media is popular — really, really, popular

You don't need to be a dedicated reader of tech blogs or an expert in online marketing to know that social media is really popular among consumers.

According to the Pew Research Center, 65 percent of American adults use social networks , which means that social media will touch nearly every customer that walks through your door.

For most small businesses,Facebook — which has 1.7 billion monthly active users — is the jumping-off point for getting started with social media marketing.

With its extensive reach and dynamic functionality, there are very few businesses that couldn't benefit from having a presence on Facebook. And starting there will make it easier when you want to try something new.

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3. Social media is cost-effective

As more social networks add algorithms that filter what users see in their news feeds, your organic content may get lost in the shuffle. Take advantage of the low-cost advertising features offered by the social networks to promote your content and special offers.

Most social media advertising is cheaper than traditional advertising, so you don't have to spend a lot of money to reach more people, increase your audience, and grow your business.

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4. Social media reaches all ages and demographics

Social media defies age barriers. A 2015 Pew Research Center study found that 65 percent of US adults are using social networks.

Between 2005 and 2015, usage among ages 30-49 has increased by 69 points from 8 percent to 77 percent. So, no matter how young or old your target audience may be, chances are most of them are already logging on and waiting for you to get started.

5. Social media encourages two-way communication

Social media gives you the power to learn more about your audience, their interests, and collect feedback.

Ask your customers to share their thoughts, questions, and ideas to get to know them better. You can respond just as fast, without having to pick up the phone or worry the customer isn't seeing your response.

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6. Social media users are active

One thing you have to know about social media users is that when they say they are on social media, they are really on social media.

Social media users in the US check their accounts 17 times a day, according to an Informate Mobile Intelligence report. While a customer may visit your store once a week, they could see your social media posts in their feed multiple times during the week.

7. Social media lets you share A LOT about your business

Social media sites are becoming the go-to place for consumers who want to learn more about a business. That's because these sites allow businesses to offer the most up-to-date information about anything from products, services, or upcoming events.

Also, much of your activity and profiles on social media sites can be made public, meaning they can be indexed by search engines — one more way to make sure your business or organization comes up as the answer when someone is searching for a solution to a problem.

8. Social media is everywhere

Today, more than half of all Americans are smartphone users and more and more businesses are offering mobile-friendly experiences. The benefit of the increased presence of mobile activity in our daily lives is huge for small businesses.

Most major social networks, including Facebook, Twitter, Pinterest, and Instagram, offer free mobile apps that let business owners manage their presence on-the-go.

More importantly, these apps let customers connect to their favorite sites wherever they are. These users aren't just sharing updates from their own lives, they're searching for businesses, products, and services, and connecting with brands through their social channels.

Having a social media presence that's accessible via mobile can improve the chances of your business getting found when someone is searching for a place to eat or a product to buy, while on-the-go.

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