Dear Kaelie,
Looking back at high school, it seems like it was such a long time ago. Really, I only graduated almost two years ago, but it feels like a lifetime. College is awesome, life is great, and I’m even married! Now, I’m not some genius who knows the secret to happiness. There are still so many things that I do not know. But, looking back at high school, I have a few pieces of advice to give you.
First of all, don’t care what others think. Life is too short to pretend to be someone you aren’t. If someone doesn’t like you for you, they aren’t the kind of person you want in your life. Wear whatever you want to wear. No one cares about what you are wearing. High school is not a fashion show so wear those sweatpants!!
It’s sad to say, but not everyone will be a true friend. Yes, you see the best in everyone, but that can come back to bite you. Be nice to everyone, but don’t have complete trust in everyone right away. It’s OK to guard your heart a little.
Don’t stress too much over the little things. Yes, school is important, but it’s OK if you don’t do every single assignment. Go out with your friends every once in a while, instead of staying up late to study. Those relationships are so much more important than getting a 100 on a test. Also, with stressing about the little things, it’s OK to mess up. Don’t worry about saying the wrong thing or giving the wrong answer when the teacher calls on you. Those things don’t matter in the long run.
High school is so hard. You’re going to school full time, working, managing a social life and somewhere in that time sleeping. It’s also a stressful time. Trying to figure out your future with college and what you want to do when you grow up is scary. Remember this: It will all work out in the end. There’s no need to worry as long as you are trying your best.
Last but not least, stand up for yourself. You are too nice to people. Yes, be nice to everyone, but don’t let them walk all over you. You are special, so don’t let people treat you any less than you are. Use your voice. You’re a smart kid, don’t forget that!
Love,
Kaelie