To My Best Friends, I Could Never Forget Us

To My Best Friends, I Could Never Forget Us

I will never forget how much you'll always mean to me.

Every girl needs her best friends - it's even better when those best friends play different roles in your life. This one is for my five absolute best friends that I wouldn't trade for the world:

Thank you for putting up with my distance and always being there for me whenever I need you. We may not talk every day, but I always know that if I need anything you'll always just be a text away.

Thank you for helping me through all my relationship issues - past and present. Honestly, my relationships probably wouldn't have ended or started without the advice of you guys and I'm very thankful for that because now I have the guy of my dreams - because of your advice.

Thank you for not taking screenshots of my ugly snapchats I send you guys and thank you for not posting them because like all those embarrassing snaps we send, it would be more embarrassing on social media.

Thank you for making me laugh - even when I want to cry. You guys always know how to lift my mood up when I'm down and to make me laugh even when I try so hard not too.

Thanks for all the shopping trips we take and making me realize you guys don't help the fact I try to save money. Shopping is something we love to do together but when we do, it's either all out or not at all. I had to say goodbye to probably $1,000 over summer 2017, but thanks for the time together, guys!

Thank you for all the food runs we do. Whether one is hungry or all of us are starving, we just text each other and we go wherever because all of us love food just as much as the other.

Thank you for all the vacations together and the memories we shared. I'll never forget my bikini bottoms dropping in the ocean from a wave or the time seagulls attacked me for my french fries. Or the time someone got "stung" by a jellyfish when she just got bit by a bug. We told you we gave you allergy medicine but it was really Advil and you believed us! Thank you for all these memories over the years of friendship we've shared.

Finally, just thank you for being my best friends. I don't know what I would do without you guys or even where I'd be. You've been there for me through it all and never once turned your back. So, this one is for you guys, and never forget how much you'll always mean to me.

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This morning, I did the same thing I do every single morning when I wake up. Before my feet hit the floor, I say a prayer. I thank God for waking me up, blessing me with such a good life, and pray for any specific thing that is laying on my heart. Lately, I have been praying a lot for the same person many people in my community have been praying for- Matt McGregor. I have prayed for healing, comfort, strength, and many other things to happen in Matt's journey, but I also prayed that God's will be done in his life above all else. Little did I know yet that His will had been done.

I remember Matt from school. Every time I saw him, everyone around him was laughing. And I am not exaggerating. He was one of those special people who can literally make anyone and everyone laugh no matter the situation. He was one of those people that the world needs around to make life more bearable and just down right better.

Death sucks. Cancer sucks. Yes, I am glad that Matt is no longer suffering, but that does not really give me a sense of relief because I know his family and friends are suffering. I think about Matt's sisters, and cannot fathom the pain that they're feeling. I could not imagine life without my brothers, my kids not getting to grow up and hang out with their cool uncles, and telling on each other to our parents when we all come home for Christmas when we're 40. I think about his parents, who are having to do the hardest thing anyone could have to do, say goodbye to their son. I think about his friends, who's lives will never be the same every time they do something that reminds them that he's no longer here to share life with. He was too young, too full of life. The worst death are the ones that can't be explained, and this one of them.

That's the thing about life, you never know when it's going to end and that is what makes it so fragile. Someone you know passes away, and you suddenly start to contemplate whether you are living your life "good" enough. You wish you'd spent more time with the one who passed, hold on a little tighter to the ones who are still here, and make sure you remind them you love them. But to show someone you love them is much more powerful than telling them, and that is exactly how Matt lived his life. His life light was beaming all the time and he was constantly sharing that with everyone around him. That is part of why he was so special.

When someone dies, they leave their own legacy that is different from every single other person on the planet. Your legacy depends on the amount of light that you have shed on others. Looking through Facebook today, it is so obvious that his light touched so many people. Matt's death has reminded me of those that I have and will continue to lose throughout life... there is no better way to say it than death sucks. But even though death sucks, it reminds us to live our life to the fullest, and continue the legacy of those we've lost.

On a side note, I found it interesting that Matt was barefoot all the time, so I googled being barefoot in biblical times. Moses and Joshua was commanded to take off his shoes as he was standing on holy ground, and poor people did not have shoes so they went barefoot. But this is my favorite: priests in Israel went barefoot while ministering. They would take their shoes off before blessing their people. It is evident that Matt blessed so many people's lives in his short time on this Earth. Coincidence that he was known for always being barefoot? I think not.

Let your life light shine brightly like Matt's, and always live life to the fullest.

. . .

In loving memory of Matt McGregor Jr.

Then I heard a voice from heaven say, "Write this: Blessed are the dead who die in the Lord from now on." "Yes," says the Spirit, "they will rest from their labor, for their deeds will follow them." Revelation 14:13

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