As someone whose hobbies consist pretty exclusively of watching Netflix and attending concerts, I’d like to think that I’m experienced enough to offer some advice about do’s and don’ts of concert going. Read on for some tips and tricks to make your next concert experience more pleasant for you and for those around you.

1. Know what to expect.

Don’t buy GA Floor tickets for a hard rock concert and then be mad when you get pushed around in the pit. Similarly, don’t go to a mellow, indie-rock show expecting to turn up.

2. Don’t bring your kids into the pit.

I’ve written an entire article about this. Short version: If you’re going to a rock show, don’t bring your kids into the pit because it’s dangerous. I’m not saying children don’t belong at concerts, I’m just saying that you should buy seated tickets if you bring your kids.

3. Don’t leave in the middle of the show and then come back expecting to get to "your spot."

I don’t care what your reasoning for abandoning your place was, if you leave in the middle of a set, I will not let you back in. Use the bathroom beforehand, and if you really can’t go three hours without a drink in your hand, maybe it’s time to reevaluate some of your life choices.

4. Invest in a fanny pack.

They’re making a comeback people. There’s some pretty cute and cheap options readily available on Amazon. Fanny packs are less intrusive than purses, and you can cinch them through your belt loops so your chances of having it lost or stolen are lessened immensely.

5. If you have long hair, put it up.

The last thing anybody wants when they’re jumping around at a concert is to end up with a mouthful of somebody else’s hair. Ponytails, braids, buns - there are all sorts of simple ways to keep your hair from flying in every which direction.

6. Watch out for each other.

If you happen to be in the pit, it’s important to be self-aware and pay attention to your surroundings. So whether it’s your friends or the pair of obviously high school aged girls near you, make sure to check in from time to time to make sure that everyone is safe and enjoying themselves.

7. Be nice to security.

Make their lives easier by being prepared before you enter the venue. Have your ticket and ID (if necessary) out, empty your pockets, and open your bag. During the show, listen to what they say. They’re there to keep you safe and they work hard. Don’t be a dick, particularly if the venue is a place you frequent.

8. Put your phone down and live a little.

You don’t need to record every moment of the concert. Take a few pictures and a few videos, but otherwise, put it away and enjoy the present.