New year, new perspective on guys. Say it with me everyone: NO MORE F**K BOYS! We've all had them, the various encounters with beautiful, charming frat boys, you know the ones-- with the perfect blonde hair that swoops softly across the brow of their sparkling blue eyes, sporting their baby pink woven cotton blend Polo. They lark around every party, scouting out their next victim of Netflix and chill. They take you home as you tease your fingers down his marbled buttons, revealing his abs that must have been crafted by the gods. He walks you back to your apartment, twirls you around and wishes you a magical night, as your lips meet at the foot of your door. You swoonover his ever so smooth moves and way with words. Until next week, when you see his lips locked with some brunette in your History class. History is right. You ask yourself, how you could possibly fall into this trap.. again? It's because you're not giving the cute boy in your Research Methods class a chance. Remember the one with the adorable smile who is practically begging for your attention, but you won't give him the time of day? Do yourself a favor and give it to him.

1. You're Not Yourself Around The Gorgeous Jerk-bag.

Admit it, you feel the need to look your very best to keep his attention. You stumble over your words as conversations slip into the unsteady. You cannot risk smudging your eyeliner to scratch your itchy eyes around him. No chance you'll be singing your heart out in the car with this one. He can't know your weird ways. Why would you want to be with someone you can't be yourself around? You need the guy who will accept you and ALL of your quirks. Pick they guy that you can scream "I Just Can't Wait To Be King" with, without feeling judged. Date the one who will be right there singing it with you.

2. So Maybe He's Not A 10... Big Whoop.

Maybe his abs weren't exactly crafted by the gods, or maybe they were. 10, 9, 8, 7 it doesn't matter if he has some imperfections. Please realize even the 10's are not 10's. Looks help, but they're not everything. If you're generally attracted to him, he's nice to you and you enjoy spending time with him.. for the love of all that is good in this world, don't let that slip away from you. The nice guys are few and far out there in this sea we're swimming in. If you're lucky enough to find one who isn't trying to get with you and you sister behind your back, congratulations, you're off to a good start. You don't want to be with someone who thinks he's the hottest thing to ever erupt out of the Earth. Trust me, been there, done that,not worth it.

3. He Actually Cares And Wants To Be There For You.

Wait, wait, wait a real guy who actually wants to make you feel better after your crappy day at work? They exist? Are you sure? Yes my dear, they are out there. It's really crazy to think a guy will actually show up to your door with your Starbucks order, ready to watch your favorite Youtube vloggers with you after you had a not-so-great day. Sure, your typical player will somewhat listen to your horrible guest encounter, but pick the guy who actually puts the effort into brightening your moon. You sir, you deserve a medal.

4. He Doesn't Play Games With You.

He is real, up front and honest with you. He doesn't give you that "I'm just messing around right now, but we'll see where it goes" bull. He likes you, he wants to know more about you and cares enough to show you that. You won't get the "I'm not looking for a relationship" thing from him. Here's my problem with that line. You shouldn't be looking for a relationship. How does one look for a relationship? That I will never understand. Relationships should fall into place, all great stories are told from the unexpected. There is no way to expect what is not expected.

Hey, bro who is probably not reading this, here's some advice: go, to the party, sit next to the girl in your class who you think is pretty or interesting and get to know her. Don't tail her along if you're not into it. If you are into her, even if it doesn't make sense, go for it. What's a good life without a little risk factor? Don't worry about the distance that may or may not be involved, or if your friends think you're "whipped". If you find a girl who compliments your soul, bringing out the best in you and who will push you to make your dreams come true.. please don't play her. Treat her with respect, because you might not find her again when you go "looking".

5. He is Not Looking At Every Other Girl That Passes By.

You don't have to worry about him doing a double take to check out the backside of that blonde girl as she strolls by in her denim cut offs. It's an amazing feeling knowing that you don't have to worry about him making out with some random girl in front of your face at the party. It doesn't make you sweat trying to find him, he actually is looking for you. Another big shocker. You can trust that he is all about you.

6. He Doesn't Blow You Off.

I know this is some really shocking information but if you happen to find a nice guy in the pools of boys who only care about taking your pants off-- he actually shows up-- wait for it-- to dates.WHOA, CRAZY. It's a really strange feeling when you are so incredibly used to making plans with your crush, getting all excited and then he ends up somehow becoming too drunk on the beach to remember that he made plans with you. So maybe your 8 isn't a male model, but he picks you up on time, opens the car door for you and is just as excited to spend time with you, as you are with him.

7. He Makes You Happy.

You get butterflies when his name pops up across your screen. You can't wait to interlock your fingers between his. You want to spend as much time as you possibly can with him because he brings out the best in you. Don't get ahead of yourself, keep your friends close but if you find a guy that keeps you smiling, keep him. Don't fear what could be if things are not exactly ideal-- if he makes you happy, it's worth so much more than searching for someone else.