Living in a house with six other people all related to you comes with adventures, loud dinners and lines for the bathroom. Add to that two dogs, and you have a recipe for eventful day-to-day living. Amidst the mayhem, there are ample amounts of lessons to be learned. Here are the seven most valued lessons I have learned along the way.

1. Every part of the process is essential.

Mom and dad used to measure the kids' heights with a tape measure and a pencil against the kitchen door frame, but you'll see, as you grow individually, you will grow with your family even more. Experiences with your family can be given the credit for the majority of your personal growth. If one month you're eating breakfast for dinner a couple times a week, and another month you're going out to dinner Friday nights, you are doing it as a family. And each step of the way, you're learning how to live. Together.

2. Silence is a treasure.

Peace and quiet is a winning lottery ticket that comes and goes with the turn of the door knob. It is not to be taken for granted. Whether it happens once everyone gets to sleep or before everyone shuffles through the front door coming home from work, school, or wherever else life had them running to. It is a time where it's only your breath and the sound of the dogs' paws on the hardwood, and it is likely to be the highlight of your day in a full house. Take advantage of this time to focus or just relax!

3. Time all together is rare and, therefore, so special.

When everyone's work, meetings and extracurricular schedules line up for a dinner - the Earth might have stopped turning - or it's Christmas. Having the whole gang around the kitchen table will indubitably cause mom and dad to grin and repeatedly say, "I'm so glad everyone's home for the night. We're so lucky." It is important to remember to look around and take it all in for what it's worth.

4. Life is short.

It is definitely a cliché, but it is nonetheless true. Baby-powder-smelling, jingle-bell-necklace-wearing, brown-eyed grandmas won't be here forever. Sit and talk on the phone with her for 20 minutes and listen to her as she tells you all about your grandpa's latest project at the house. Go to breakfast with her when she calls and offers it you on your spring break. Realize how easy it is to enjoy. Realize how much you love her. Memorize the worry lines on her cheeks, and the dimples she gave to your mom, and to you - your children will one day inherit them, too.

5. Oftentimes, your family sees the truth that you're blind to.

If your siblings, or parents or uncles don’t like someone you bring home, chances are they see the trouble in their palms before you do, and you should respect and trust their judgement. No matter if you aren’t happy with their immediate response, you have to consider their reasoning. They have your best interest at heart, and are only trying to help you avoid potential heartbreak and turmoil. Believe me when I say that they are by no means trying to sabotage your teenage love life.

6. Your family name is quite the handshake.

Being kind to people is worth it because nine years later, teachers will still smile at your last name when they have you - or your younger sister - in class. Whether it is positive or negative, your last name will have an influence on people’s immediate impression of you. Working towards adding your individual impact onto your family name will pay off. Strive toward making yourself and your family proud in everything you do.

7. At the end of the day, you have each other.

Family will always be the No. 1 priority, through thick and thin. No matter the situation, circumstances or weather, your family will undoubtedly be there to support you, encourage you and love you. Be thankful for the great support system you live with and use it to grow.