Unfortunately, life isn't always a fairytale, and the person you want doesn't always want you. So, save yourself the heartbreak, and move on before you find yourself crying over a guy while playing the album "Take Care" on repeat for the next few days. Sometimes you just have to recognize when he's just not into you.

1. You Never Meet His Friends

Meeting a person's closest friends shows that they see a future with you or at least see you to be important enough to have you come around people who are pretty much guaranteed to be in their life for years. If you never meet his friends, trust and believe you definitely won't be meeting the parents.

2. He Ditches You For His Friends

Not only are you not meeting his friends, but he always is leaving you for his friends. It's understandable if on occassion he has to leave or cancel for something with his friends, but if it literally feels like you're the second choice only when his friends are busy, and he's bored. It doesn't seem like it's looking too good.

3. He Only Texts You At Night

He's ghost the entirety of the day up until like eleven at night, and suddenly it's like his phone can't leave his hand. Granted, some people actually are genuinely busy during the day, but look at the type of conversation that happens night after night. You'll know what the deal is. He rarely texts you unless it's on his time? Yeah, it's sounding like this is just a conversation out of convenience. Don't let this be the end all be all. Texting isn't for everyone, but if you know that he is always texting and always on his phone, ask yourself why he has to wait until it's late to text you?

4. Your "Date" Spot Always Is His Place

He only texts you at night, so you're probably also only meeting up at night. Well, when you choose to meet up at night, there's only but so many locations you can solidify as your "date" spot, and those spots are your place or his. Don't get me wrong. It can be fun chilling at the crib from time to time especially if you are a homebody but look at the type of activities he suggests when ya'll are hanging. Trust your gut sis.

5. He Treats You Like A Homie

Ya'll go out, and he daps you up like you're one of the bros. He may not even do that, and he might hit you with the head nod. You'll be standing there shook, but don't be. That's just how he greets his homies, and that's all you are. You go to a party and see him all over another girl? Yeah, that's because whatever ya'll are doing may not be that serious in his mind. You have to cancel him if ya'll are at the same party, and he knows that you see him all over another girl. That's just plain disrespectful.

6. He Avoids Any Commitment

All you have to do is mention relationships, being his girl, being exclusive, or anything along those lines, and suddenly it's crickets on his end. He will try to be as vague as possible when defining what exactly is going on between ya'll, because truth be told, he probably is trying to formulate some escape route or technicality. Trust me, he'll be quick to say, "Well, we never really were together." If he wants you, he'll commit. You won't have to question where you stand. If it's complicated, it probably isn't a thing.

Honestly, you probably didn't need this list to tell you he's not into you because you must've had a hunch if you are reading this. Trusting your intuition will be one of the best decisions you can make, second to you deciding to stop playing these games with the guy you're unsure about.