The first semester of college is over and for a lot of us that means relief -- until the next semester, anyway. There are a lot of things I didn't know as a freshman going into college, a lot of things I really wish I didn't freak out about and quite a few things that I've still yet to figure out going into my second semester. But for anyone who's been there or soon to be there, here are some things I really wish I knew before going to college.
1. It's fun!
For some reason in my big crazy mind, I had envisioned that I would be swimming in notes, textbooks and sadness. In reality, the professors give us homework maybe once a week, so I can do it all in increments and study all week and spend the rest of the time listening to "Pony" by Ginuwine on repeat.
2. I use very little of what I learned in high school -- college is a new beginning!
One of the best things about college is that I'm learning about all new things that interest me and I'm enjoying them! (Aside from the 12 Spanish words and rules of English that I learned in high school.) But hey, I'm not exactly a math major either.
3. You can pursue what you want, and independence is a blessing.
You're on your own now and the world is your oyster! Want a job? Go for it. Think that guy is cute? Date him. Want to spend every last penny you have on a hoodie? Do it! You're a grown woman and you can to whatever you want!
4. You can pursue what you want and independence is a curse.
You're on your own now, which means you have to make at least one really terrible decision a week. Think that guy is cute? Wait didn't he just call that girl the "b-word"? Want to spend every last penny you have on a hoodie? Go ahead, don't let your parents control you, but what's for dinner tomorrow?
5. "Me time" is necessary.
Eating ice cream by yourself (although maybe not the healthiest of choices) every so often may be essential to keep your sanity. Talk to yourself in the mirror, read a funny comic, watch a dancing video and imagine you're one of the dancers. Give yourself a little bit of time dedicated to you each day to prevent college craziness.
6. College is easy.
Everything aside, if you manage your time and stay focused, college will be an easy experience. The most important thing to remember your first semester is that you can conquer anything that comes your way. Think positively and your actions will reflect that!
