5 Things You Can Start Doing Now To Make Sure You Have Direction In 2018
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5 Things You Can Start Doing Now To Make Sure You Have Direction In 2018

May 2018 bring you good health, less stress, and all things good.

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5 Things You Can Start Doing Now To Make Sure You Have Direction In 2018
Jerry Kiesewetter

A brand new year marks the beginning of many things. Whether 2018 is the year you begin college, or graduate; The year where you travel somewhere new or take on new things; The year where you flourish into the best version of yourself, here are 5 things you can start doing now to make sure you have direction in 2018.

1. Take risks.

I'm sure you've heard this plenty, probably even before the new year even started. So what's stopping you from stepping out of your comfort zone? Step outside and see what the world has to offer you. Don't limit yourself because you're scared of what the outcome may or may not be.

You're human, it's only natural for everyone to be afraid of the unknown but a year is too short to ponder on "what if's." Take on those risks and unfamiliarity head on, it will help you blossom into a wondrous person.

2. Accept failure.

As blunt as this may be, you're going to fail at times. A lot. The fact of the matter is: life is unfair. Things are going to happen to us that we wouldn't wish upon our worst enemy, sometimes things are out of your control, but you live and learn and that's the beauty of it.

May this be the year you come to terms with that fact if you haven't done so already. I promise it will save a lot of time and emotional burden. Everyone is going to fail and who cares? Who cares. Don't get me wrong, when things don't always go as thoroughly planned as I intended them to be, it sucks. It doesn't stop me though from tackling on the next thing and it most certainly shouldn't stop you.

3. Love yourself unconditionally.

Fall in love with yourself this year, more than you ever will. Nobody is going to love you more than you love yourself. You are a one of a kind gem and you should be treated as such and nothing less than that. Don't accept any negativity from anyone who makes you feel an less than that.

This year take yourself on dates, treat yourself, and do what makes you happy. Remember that your mental health comes before anything else and I cannot emphasize that enough. Learn to accept the flaws, embrace your insecurities, and love what makes you, you. Fall in love with yourself, you will be invincible.

4. Leave anything toxic from 2017.

If you haven't done so already, be sure to leave all the toxic, negative things behind––anything that stressed you out, strained relationships with friends or loved ones, and especially any self-hate or doubt. I know, easier said than done but it truly starts with you and taking it on in whatever way that may be or how long.

As long as you make the initiative this year and try. If you gradually remove the toxins from your life, your days will start to shine much brighter.

5. Take on 2018, one day at a time.

To save the best for last, remember to take this year one day at a time. Don't focus on the past and whatever shenanigans happened in 2017. Leave it in 2017! For all the worries of what may hold in your future, stop it. No one, not I, and especially not you, knows what the future may hold for us. All we can do is direct all our energy and time into the present and hope for the best.

A lot of times we forget to appreciate the moments in the present. Live each day like it's your last. Appreciate your loved ones, surroundings, and yourself in 2018.

This is your year, make the best of it.

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