5 Things You Learn When Your Mom Is Your Biggest Supporter
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5 Things You Learn When Your Mom Is Your Biggest Supporter

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5 Things You Learn When Your Mom Is Your Biggest Supporter
Nour Elshazly

Moms are a lot of things, but most importantly, they’re our biggest support system. Along the way and through the years, we learn a lot from them whether we realize it or not. I know I wouldn't be who I am or where I am now without the support of my mom every step of the way.

1. You learn to be independent

Having a strong woman in your life, especially your mom, will teach you a thing or two about being independent. You learn to be able to do things on your own and make your own decisions and deal with whatever consequences may come with that because everything is a learning experience.

2. You’re told the truth, whether you want to hear it or not

A supportive mom will be honest and straight up with you, no matter what. Sure, your feelings can get hurt sometimes but you know you can trust her with anything. She will tell you when that top actually makes you look fat, and when you’re being a psycho. You know she only wants the best for you, even if it doesn’t seem like it at the moment.

3. You believe you can do anything you set your mind to

My mom always reminds me that I can do anything as long as I put my mind to it. With this instilled in me from a young age, I was taught to dream big and go for it.

4. You learn she’s there for you when you have a bad day

You know she’s always waiting at home to give you a hug after a rough day, or any kind of day. You also learn that she is the best shoulder to cry on. She will listen to you endlessly rant about pointless or important things and won’t ever tell you to shut up.

5. She will encourage you to take a risk you’re too afraid of

She will be the one encouraging you to travel more, study abroad longer, and to try something new.

While of course, we all argue with our moms and have our bad days, at the end of it all they will always be our biggest supporter.

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