Picking a major right away is one of the scariest parts of college, besides picking up and leaving your home and family and friends to spread your wings in another state--But anyways, major changes are by far a difficult thing. It’s the constant fear that you made the wrong choice or the voices in your head asking if you should follow through or if you should just keep the Band-Aid on and stick it out. But friends, IT IS OK! No one ever thinks it’s going to happen to themselves--actually, I remember telling my SSA on our first meeting that I was positive I knew what I wanted to do and I would not be changing my major, like ever. But here I am with a changed major and I could not be happier! The five stages of changing your major can be difficult but relax because you aren’t alone! So many other students are going through the same fears, so have each others’ backs because this isn’t the end of the world but a start to a new beginning! Detours happen in life, but all you have to do is put on your favorite song and dance your way through it!

1. The thought of changing your major:

The initial thought that sparks the dangerous question of change. No one really likes change that much to say "hey I’m gonna change my whole life plan" but you aren’t alone! There will always be change ahead--why not embrace it! I mean when college comes around who really knows what they are doing with their life anyways?!

2. The questioning:

Let the questioning begin! Is it too late to change my major? Am I sure of this dramatic change? What will my parents think? What does this mean for my career and future? Picking a major right away is stressful and it's ok to want a fresh change!

3. More questioning:

Yes, it continues. Longer for some, but that’s all a part of making sure it is the right decision for you! Questioning is good to ensure you are positive about this life-changing decision—but it shouldn’t hold you back if you are just nervous.

4. Confirmation:

The thing is, you may be scared, but really it is a great thing in order to be in a major and eventually a workplace that you enjoy! A huge part of decision making is based on what others think. As much as people tell you not to let them impact you—and you really shouldn’t too much, it’s okay to ask their opinions! Ask professors or people in those programs to find your own confirmation that this is what you want to do! It is always easier committing to something with others’ support anyways!

5. The actual change:

CONGRATS!! This is the big shebang, the real deal, and the best part after all the questioning is over and the decision is final is by far the joy. I sure hope the weight is off your shoulders and it is a time to celebrate change, rather than run from it like so many of us do now-a-days. Celebrate that you have found something you WANT to do, that you have a new community of classmates who will celebrate you and your success too! Oh and the good news is, your major does NOT define you! You keep being you friends and enjoy the new path ahead of you!