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5 Ways to Know If Your Significant Other Is The One

Distance Makes The Heart Grow Fonder

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I like to believe that everyone has a certain someone who is meant to be with them. Everyone is capable of giving and receiving love, but sometimes it's hard to tell what kind of love you're getting back. Luckily, if you're ever in doubt, there are some ways to help you determine if your significant other is the one or not!

They will drop everything for you.

​The One will always drop everything and anything just to see you or to be there when you need them and that is important in a relationship. In a relationship, especially long-term relationships, it's very important to have a sort of dependency where you feel like if you need your significant other, they value you enough to take time out of their days to make sure they're there for you. In a relationship you should be dependent on each other emotionally to a degree where when you need them, they will be there no matter what or where.

They support your differences.

It's easy and very unhealthy to fight in a relationship. Human beings are all different and we all have different opinions and views but arguing over those inherent different does nothing but fuel a fire inside of us and cause destruction. If they are right for you, not only will you agree on the fundamental things (how many kids do you want, marriage, housing choices, etc.), but they will also respect your differences and opinions rather than trying to change you. Loving each other through thick and thin means loving the highs and lows and respecting each other rather than tearing each other down.

They miss you.

​There's a difference between missing someone because you haven't seen them in a while and missing someone because they are such a big part of your life and you don't want to be without them. If they are meant to be with you then they will prove the saying "distance makes the heart grow fonder" true by showing you that you are always on their mind no matter how far or how long.

They bring out the best in you.

The right person for you will support and accentuate all of your flaws while also loving everything that is great about you (and trust me, there are SO many great things about you)! it's easy to say that you don't like something about someone else and it is so easy to pick apart another person, especially when you spend day and night with someone, but the right person will not only acknowledge your flaws but also love them because they are a part of you. The person that is meant to be in your life will love you for you and everything that comes with you. Your past and your insecurities are a package, and when you finally get to show someone that version of yourself and they love it, then you get see how amazing it feels to be your 100% authentic self with someone! Don't be afraid to be you!!

You will never have doubts.

​If you have any doubt in your mind that your significant other may not be The One then that should tell you that they really aren't The One after all. You will know within yourself if they are meant for you or not and that has to come within yourself. The best judge of character is you, so trust your instincts here. If you want to spend your life with someone, you have to be sure about it. If a person came up to you and asked you if you could see yourself spending your life with your significant other and you are sure about it, you won't have any moments of hesitation of doubts. Be confident in your own judgement and know that if they are The One, the answer is already inside of you!

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