21 Little Things Every College Girl Should Do Before Turning 21

21 Little Things Every College Girl Should Do Before Turning 21

1. Get yourself a good group of friends.

1. Get yourself a good group of friends.

A core group of friends will always be the ones to help cheer you up when you are down.

2. You don't need a boy to define you.

Not having a boyfriend does not mean anything, it means you can be independent and do things on your own.

3. Nothing is as big of a deal as you think.

When you have little fights with friends, work it out because it is not the end of the world and you will need them.

4. Take time for yourself.

You don't always need to be out, relax, rest, and lay in bed longer than you normally do

5. Binge watch shows on Netflix.

It is completely okay to finish a season of a show in one night.

6. A night in with the girls is always needed.

You don't always need to go out, a movie night is always therapeutic.

7. Chinese food solves all problems.

Movie night and Chinese. What more do you need?

8. Just call your mom to say hi.

When you are having a bad day she is always able to cheer you up.

9. Live in the moment.

Be actively present and engaging in the activities surrounding you.

10. It is what it is.

You can't change what life throws at you, so accept it and move on and keep pushing forward.

11. If you run out of clothes, go through your friend's closet.

When you get bored of your closet, raiding your friends closet will always help.

12. Your GPA is not the end of the world.

Just because you do not have the highest GPA in your friend group does not mean you aren't smart.

13. Go shopping to get rid of your stress.

Use a day at the mall for some stress relief.

14. Friends become family.

Sometimes family isn't always there so the friends that surround you will become your new family.

15. Use a friend's shoulder to cry on.

When you are having a bad day, crying on a friend's shoulder will make it a little easier.

16. Go to sleep early.

Turn your phone off and go to bed, it will help distract you from the stress and anxiety.

17. You can overcome tragedy.

Yes losing someone is terrible but you grow from it and that will shape you into the person you will become.

18. Cook a nice dinner.

Go to the grocery store, buy food and cook a nice dinner, instead of eating a frozen pizza.

19. Stay out late.

Sometimes a night out will help distract you from what is going on.

20. Go out for dinner even when you don't have a lot of money.

Having dinner out with friends let's you relax and you make memories and forget all about the work to be done.

21. Be spontaneous.

Spur of the moment plans make the best memories.

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To The Dad Who Didn't Want Me, It's Mutual Now

Thank you for leaving me because I am happy.

Thank you, for leaving me.

Thank you, for leaving me when I was little.

Thank you, for not putting me through the pain of watching you leave.

Thank you, for leaving me with the best mother a daughter could ask for.

I no longer resent you. I no longer feel anger towards you. I wondered for so long who I was. I thought that because I didn't know half of my blood that I was somehow missing something. I thought that who you were defined me. I was wrong. I am my own person. I am strong and capable and you have nothing to do with that. So thank you for leaving me.

In my most vulnerable of times, I struggled with the fact that you didn't want me. You could have watched me grow into the person that I have become, but you didn't. You had a choice to be in my life. I thought that the fact that my own father didn't want me spoke to my own worth. I was wrong. I am so worthy. I am deserving, and you have nothing to do with that. So thank you for leaving me.

You have missed so much. From my first dance to my first day of college, and you'll continue to miss everything. You won't see me graduate, you won't walk me down the aisle, and you won't get to see me follow my dreams. You'll never get that back, but I don't care anymore. What I have been through, and the struggles that I have faced have brought me to where I am today, and I can't complain. I go to a beautiful school, I have the best of friends, I have an amazing family, and that's all I really need.

Whoever you are, I hope you read this. I hope you understand that you have missed out on one of the best opportunities in your life. I could've been your daughter. I could have been your little girl. Now I am neither, nor will I ever be.

So thank you for leaving me because I am happy. I understand my self-worth, and I understand that you don't define me. You have made me stronger. You have helped make me who I am without even knowing it.

So, thank you for leaving me.

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An Open Letter To The Friend Who Continues To Save My Life

No one knows me like you do.


From the day we became friends, we have always had nothing but support for one another. Although we have only really been friends for about seven years now, I feel as if you have always been a part of my life. You know me just as well as you know yourself, and I understand you in the same way I understand my own thoughts and feelings.

You have never made me feel pressured, insecure, or unappreciated. The mutual respect we have for one another is unmatched. We can talk to each other about anything; from some of the most trivial topics to entire life philosophies. We have grown and matured together, and I couldn't be more proud of the person you are today.

We don't always agree on everything, and I always appreciate your fresh point of view, but I have never felt more in sync with another person than I do with you. We share the same birth month, the same age, the same home town, the same anxieties, and many of the same attitudes and values.

I feel as if you know exactly when I want to be alone and when I need company. Since we are both introverted, we understand that the other person needs time to recharge. And when I'm sitting alone with nothing to do, I always get a text from you asking to hang out.

In some of my loneliest, most vulnerable moments, you have been there. When I question how many true friends I really have, you are always sure to make your love for me known.

Through high school, and now college, we have experienced so many life-changing events together. Some that have taught us extremely valuable lessons, and others that have shown us incredible pain and how to grow from our lowest moments.

I want to thank you for showing me what life-long friendship looks like. Thank you for always understanding me and never putting too much pressure on me. I see an incredible future for both of us no matter where each of our lives takes us.

We will always share a unique connection that cannot be separated by any distance. But, for now, I'm glad you're only one text or phone call away.

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