I have made many mistakes throughout my 19 years of life. I have have also had many triumphs. There are many things I wish I had known before the age of 19.
So, here is a list of 19 things that I wish I had known before the age of 19. Hope this helps.
1. Don’t procrastinate
I am a hypocrite for saying this, but procrastination is my worst enemy. I have learned that it is very easy to avoid and it feels so much better when you aren’t cramming.
2. Be who you want to be
When you are comfortable with yourself life is so much better and you enjoy things a little more. This is hard in today’s world but very much worth it.
3. Time is too short
Don’t waste it. People come and go. Tell them you love them because you never know when the last time is the last time.
4. Reward yourself
After a long week of studying for a major exam or a stressful week at work, indulge in something you like.
5. How to cook simple meals
The thing I most regret not knowing before I came to college was not learning how to cook simple meals.
6. Manage time
I really thought I knew how to manage my time, but when I got to college I was lost. If I didn’t write things down and plan almost everything, I would forget. Out of sight, out of mind.
7. Say I love you extra
If you mean it, say it. No one ever regrets saying I love you extra, they just regret it when they don’t say it at all.
8. It’s OK to ask for help
Times get tough and people understand. Reach out for help.
9. How to budget money
Sure, I always kept track of my money before I came to college, but I never really thought about how broke one could get while you're there. No job means no money so every penny counts.
10. Take advantage of everything
You only regret the chances you didn’t take so do everything you can when you can.
11. Listen
Learn how to genuinely listen to people when they talk. A lot of people hear but few listen.
12. Do your best
Give 110% all the time. When you really don’t feel like it, that’s when it matters most. Don’t give up.
13. How to fail
IT’S OK. Everyone fails and if they tell you they haven’t then they’re lying. Failing is how you learn. Try, try again.
14. Things get better
There may be days when everything seems to be going wrong. Try to make the next day better. There is a light at the end of the tunnel. It'll all work out.
15. There is always someone who will be better
There is always going to be someone who is smarter or better looking and that’s OK. That’s how life goes. Be the best you.
16. How to have a good work ethic
This will come in handy in everything you do in life. Develop one when you’re young.
17. You don’t have to be a hard-ass all the time
It’s OK to have breakdowns, and it’s OK to cry.
18. Be adventurous
This is the time to find what you truly love to do and to have a lot of fun. Go out on a Tuesday night, who cares.
19. Enjoy the little things
With time ticking so fast, it’s easy to miss the small things in life. Always appreciate and enjoy even the littlest things in life, because sometimes they’re the best things.