The new Netflix series, “13 Reasons Why,” has become an absolute hit. Everyone is talking about the intriguing characters and plot that keeps you hanging on to the edge of your seat. The episodes consist of a boy named Clay who has received tapes informing him that he is one of the thirteen reasons why his friend, Hannah Baker, killed herself. Clay’s personal journey to discover the meaning behind Hannah’s depression takes the viewers on a trip of reflection on their own lives and relationships. “13 Reasons Why” is more than just a popular show on Netflix- it teaches so much more about humanity and socialization. Here are thirteen things you should learn while watching this life-changing show.

1. “Sticks and stones may break my bones…” is an absolute lie.

No matter how many times we try to convince ourselves otherwise…words do hurt. Repeated jabs at our ego can begin to break us down in ways we never imagined.

2. It is impossible to tell someone else how they feel.

Even though we might think what we do is harmless and “fun,” other people may not feel the same way. It is wrong to assume that other people won’t take our words or actions to heart.

3. Sometimes, all we need is one friend.

Humans are social creatures. Loneliness can be one of the saddest emotions imaginable. Just having one person to talk to about our feelings can make us feel important and appreciated.

4. Never be afraid to love.

You only have one life. Extending your heart out to someone can impact his or her life in so many positive ways. Forget about the fear of rejection; take a leap of faith and love with everything you have.

5. Labels and rumors are hurtful.

Even though a rumor might seem harmless, ripple effects are likely to occur. If people begin to associate others with the one thing that hurts their self-esteem, how are they ever expected to be themselves?

6. People tend to overlook the little things.

If your friend is overly quiet and distant today, something is probably wrong. Don’t shrug off abnormal behavior, because they might need you now more than ever.

7. There is so much pressure put on teenagers.

We are expected to make good grades and have a successful future, and this can become overwhelming at times. High school students are not yet adults but have to make adult-like decisions. Give them a break.

8. Privacy is essential.

Invading on someone’s personal privacy wrecks their sense of comfort. Exposing the intimate thoughts or actions of a friend is not cool...plain and simple.

9. Memories take a toll on our emotions.

Looking back at the past, whether good or bad, takes us completely out of the present. We start to wonder if we said the right thing or could have done something differently. But the past is the past for a reason; the only thing we can do now is promise for a better future.

10. We have to take responsibility for our actions.

Fess up. Holding something over your conscious is only hurting you in the process. If you know you did something wrong, every problem is alleviated by admitting your faults.

11. A simple compliment goes a long way.

One sentence can make a person’s entire day. Just one word to make a person feel confident can save a life. Hand out compliments daily, even to the most unexpected people.

12. No means no.

Need I explain more?

13. It is entirely possible to binge-watch 13 hours of a Netflix series.