Distant relationship. These two scary words that make people cringe. And hell, I used to do the same. But apparently it depends on the person you are with. We see each other every two weeks, and I know some people would say why not find someone closer who lives in the same city. But hell no! And even though the whole thing is hard sometimes, everything is easier with him as paradoxical as it sounds. And these moments happen more than they should:
1. When you die a little every week when he is hundreds of miles away.
2. When your friends and family asks you when he is coming out next time.
3. When you two want to live together but can’t, because both have responsibilities.
4. When you eat more in two days with him than in two weeks without him, cos he “feeds the baby”.
5. When you go M.I.A because it’s “his” weekend.
6. When you Skype each other, you don’t even need to talk because most of the time it’s “skype hangouts”.
7. When he’s the person you spend most of your time with even though you see each other twice a month.
8. When you make plans what to do when he’s out here, but eventually you just lay in bed for 2 DAYS, and go grocery shopping.
9.When you do nothing together, but you love it because you just enjoy being with him for once.
10. When it physically hurts letting him go. Again.
11. When everything is so much easier, and life is just so much better when he is around, and you can just relax.
12. When he is finally here and you can judge people together.
13. When you wish he was here all the time.
*I know I'm being really gross