In today’s society, it’s all about who's dating who, but to me, that's not always the case. I could care less about the “it” couple or about having a boyfriend. I don’t care about going out on dates or getting asked out by the hot guy. Face it, not every girl is into dating and there’s nothing wrong with that. Before you question my choice of leading the single life, here’s some things you should know:

1. An ex didn’t “ruin me”

I’ve definitely had some heartbreaks, but nothing ruined me. I’m not hung up on a guy that broke my heart, and I haven’t sworn off men because of it.

2. If I do get a boyfriend, I’ll tell you

Seriously, stop asking if I have a boyfriend EVERY TIME you see me. If I meet someone special, I’ll talk about them.

3. I don't hate all men

I’m not some crazy girl that hates men. I mean I hate some men, but some are super cool and lovable.

4. I don’t need a boyfriend to be happy

I’m an independent girl; I don’t need a man to take care of me. I’m happy with myself, and having a boyfriend doesn’t give me extra self-confidence. I’ve made it really far in life without having a boyfriend, and I’m not about to start relying on a man to keep me happy now.

5. There's nothing wrong with me

I’m not some gross, unwanted girl. I’m actually pretty cool and fun to be around. People are interested in me because I’m me and not trying to impress anyone.

6. I have guy friends

I have guy friends and every guy I’m friends with isn’t my boyfriend, so don’t assume they are.

7. When I get a boyfriend, it won't be a big deal

Please do not freak out when I get a boyfriend. I really don’t want to hear “OH MY GOSH, you have a boyfriend!?"

8. I have feelings

Just because I don’t want to go out on a date with you doesn’t make me a jerk. I’m not some cold-hearted girl that doesn’t open her heart to anyone. I’m actually a super nice girl, and I like to think I’m pretty approachable (unless I just woke up).

9. I’m not being single on purpose, but I kinda am

A boyfriend would be cool, but I’m not looking for a man. I won’t go out of my way to impress someone. If they really want me, they’ll accept me for me!

10. I‘m not picky and I don’t have outrageous standards

Obviously, I have standards but I don’t think I’m too good for anyone. I’m not going around rejecting every single guy that asks me out.

11. I’m not in the closet

Trust me, I’m into men. Just because I don’t date does not mean I am secretly hiding in the closet. However, it shouldn’t matter if someone is part of the LGBTQ community; they should be accepted for who they are regardless of their dating choices.

12. I’m not emotionally unavailable

I might seem tough, like I have a wall up, but I’m not unsympathetic towards anyone.

I’m just doing me while enjoying being single and not having to stress out about dating anyone. I’ll find Mr. Right eventually, but until he comes along I’m not going to worry about always being in a relationship.