13 Struggles You Face As A Post-Grad, As Told By The 'Jersey Shore' OGs

13 Struggles You Face As A Post-Grad, As Told By The 'Jersey Shore' OGs

Taxes? We pay those?

Postgrad life is not simple or extremely glamorous. I didn't think it was going to be, but I didn't expect it to be this way. Actually, I'm not sure what I expected. You're suddenly in this in-between stage of your life where you're confused and a little scared and you feel like you're just coasting through the days and weeks until you figure out what you're doing or where you're going. You constantly have those moments of, "Whoah, I can't can't do that anymore, I'm grown."

I know five years from now, everything will be different and we will look back and think that this was all easy and hopefully we won't be hot messes. Speaking of hot messes, what better way to comprise a list of post-grad struggles than with the little help of "Jersey Shore."

The cast has really grown up in the last six years and have all gone down different paths. To think, they were in our shoes when the show first started.

Here are 12 post-grad struggles:

1. Trying to find a job

2. Moving back in with your parents

3. Seeing everyone getting married and having babies

4. Not really sure what exactly you want to do with your life

5. Trying to keep up with your college friends who now live far away and are not conveniently across the hall

6. Dating or trying to date is a challenge in itself

7. Realizing that you can't get as many free things as you did in college so you try to find loopholes

8. Feeling like there's not enough time in the day to do anything

9. When people ask you what you learned in college and you realize everything is all a blur

10. Coming to terms with the fact that binge-watching your favorite Netflix show doesn't count as being productive

11. Paying taxes is a thing you have to get used to

12. You now have a routine of waking up really early

13. Feeling your quarter-life crisis coming on

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A Letter To My Freshman Dorm Room As I Pack Up My Things

Somehow a 15' x 12' room became a home.


Dear Geary 411,

With your creaky beds, concrete walls, and mismatched tile floors, you are easily overlooked as just another room we were randomly assigned to— but you were different. Inside your old walls, I have made some of the best memories of my life that I will hold on to forever.

Thank you for welcoming my neighbors in with open arms who quickly became friends who didn't knock and walked in like you were their own.

I feel like an apology is needed.

We're sorry for blaring the music so loud while getting ready and acting like we can actually sing when, in reality, we know we can't. Sorry for the dance parties that got a bit out of control and ended with us standing on the desks. Sorry for the cases of the late-night giggles that came out of nowhere and just would not go away. Sorry for the homesick cries and the "I failed my test" cries and the "I'm dropping out" cries. We're sorry for hating you at first. All we saw was a tiny and insanely hot room, we had no idea what you would bring to us.

Thank you for providing me with memories of my first college friends and college experiences.

As I stand at the door looking at the bare room that I first walked into nine months ago I see so much more than just a room. I see lots and lots of dinners being eaten at the desks filled with stories of our days. I see three girls sitting on the floor laughing at God knows what. I see late night ice cream runs and dance battles. I see long nights of homework and much-needed naps. Most importantly, I look at the bed and see a girl who sat and watched her parents leave in August and was absolutely terrified, and as I lock you up for the last time today, I am so proud of who that terrified girl is now and how much she has grown.

Thank you for being a space where I could grow, where I was tested physically, mentally and emotionally and for being my home for a year.


A girl who is sad to go

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What I Wish I Knew About Life After High School Before I Had To Live It

Life after high school isn't always what you expected it to be.


So you're about to graduate high school and you think you have it all figured out. You and your best friends are going to stay close throughout college and you're going to take those long road trips in college to see each other. Think again.

Life after high school isn't always what you want it to be. You think you'll miss high school, you'll always be close with your high school besties, and you'll have all this free time in college. That's just not entirely true. I personally do not miss high school. I don't really talk to anyone I went to high school with on a regular basis, and I'm totally OK with that. I have friends in college that I believe will be my lifelong friends whereas my friends in high school didn't make an effort to keep in contact with me after high school.

I haven't had all the free time I've dreamed of in college, because I'm busy with school and meetings. When I'm not doing homework, I'm making sure the rest of my life is in order and all my stuff for school is in line. I'm not the crazy party girl that people think I am because of where I go to school. I'd rather sit in bed and watch Netflix than go out with my friends. I'm not a 4.0 student, but I work so hard in my classes just to make sure that I'm passing. I study a week before tests and still don't always make A's. And that's OK. It's not what I expected during my college years, but it's what's happening, and most of my friends are the same way.

Anne Marie Bonadio

Just know that life in college isn't all easy, breezy, and beautiful like Covergirl. It's hard and you will struggle whether it be in school or with your friends. College isn't always complete freedom. You'll be tied down with school and life and you won't have the free time that you always imagined. You won't always be best friends with your high school friends. You won't be taking those road trips because you won't be able to afford them, and if you're like me, your parents won't let you.

College won't be exactly what you dreamed it'll be, but it'll be some of the best years of your life.

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